We have to insure to stability and safety in the children of our future. By teaching them communication is key, always address an issue and talk to an adult in whom you trust and depend on. I believe in giving past reflections such as “this is what happened to me” “here’s my story” having the child understand you went through the same issues is extremely important seeing how you came and involved yourself. And proving to them that they can be stronger than the words others say and having them believe and realize that yes this is life and you will always run into people that may not be well rounded and will put you down. But taking those individuals actions and words and understanding why, you can rise above them showing the bothersome exposure of their demeanor and possibly even reflecting them upon their (bullies) own faults.
the many reasoning’s of bullies behaviors such as above the retaliations, but other possible matters lay on their home life poor, noon-existent, or abusive parenting which makes the child him/herself act out possible jealousy issues even arise which can single out another individual for their home life. Is this situation it needs to be understood that life is what you make of it and the circumstances you are in are only temporary. Kids needs hope which I don’t believe many have they need to determine the strength they have and how these struggles they are enduring can turn into a positive with guidance to reflect the future of happenings.
In conclusion how do we help our children understand bulling? By communication and understanding, by reflecting our own life experiences and ideologies on overcoming and strengthening our self-esteem and character values. By showing them the value of their selves and projecting on the possibilities they have from overcoming these endeavors and even being possible mentors towards others as they learn. Parents need to take more action in their child’s life knowing what they are doing, the technology they are using and are involved with. Knowing and being involved with their friends as well. Even when not managed long term effects take place into an adolescent’s adulthood, giving disadvantage for a healthy life and better means of living. Taking the time to understand and listen to a child’s feelings and distraught issues can mean all the difference and they have to know they are not alone they have to be aware that they can talk to someone and know that, that person has their back can be all the difference.
There are ways to reach out to the youth with the importance and education of the events and consequences of these actions. Having school meetings, peer mediations, and conferences with students to direct and cease the behavior and council the victims to give them strength and reality and as well for the bully themselves at times as stated above sometimes the home life circumstances are what actually makes them that way. It’s not a problem that will ever go away but it’s an issue that can hopefully in time cease. If we all as adults direct the behavior accordingly.