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Jan 13

Penn State Citizen of the Week: Paul Suhey

“Be the change you wish to see in the world”-Gandhi

Paul Suhey is  a senior who is the president of the special interest organization  Apollo, which focuses all its efforts on the mission of THON and the Four Diamonds Fund. Although being president of a THON organization may seem to have earned him the title of citizen on the week in itself, it is actually Paul’s entire attitude for life and dedication to do good in every aspect of what he does that makes him most deserving. His positive energy and perspective is exemplified in simple conversation. For example when I asked his definition of a good citizen is, he responded

“someone who realizes the potential for impact in everything that they do. With this realization, they act in a way to positively affect their surrounding community – no matter how small or big the community may be.”

Paul’s personal  acts of kindness big and small  epitomizes his good citizenship. Freshman, Jackie Patterson nominated Paul after he offered to sell his organic chemistry text book to her and instead of wanting money, Paul encouraged Jackie to give a donation to THON. It seems simple, but he has just taken one more step  in supporting the Four Diamonds Fund. And I want to remind you all that it is these  every day actions that lead to being a good citizen. We all have good intentions in trying to help the world, but in order to become good citizens, we must constantly practice our principles.

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This picture above is Paul with his Apollo family and friends. He is center right in a bright yellow shirt with a kid on his shoulders. When asked about his experiences with Apollo, Paul explained that “It has taught me never to underestimate the potential of people. From the volunteers in Apollo and THON to the Four Diamonds Families themselves, I will never cease to be amazed by the dedication individuals and groups are willing to put forth. Being surrounded by such compassionate and passionate people has made me a more positive person and given me more perspective on what really matters”

So what does really matter? I encourage you all to reflect and find answers to this question. I know I often get wrapped up in the chaos of school work and various things and I lose sight of what is important.  I think hearing and listening to people like Paul is inspiring and it reminds me to open my eyes and see all the good  in this world and the potential to make an impact.  In attempts to find out more about Paul’s ambitions  I asked, “if you had the power to change one thing in this world, what would it be?”. Most people talk about their life goals, careers, ambitions, yet  he humbly responded with “Myself” which I think reveals a lot about Paul’s character.  He expanded to say,

“I think it is easy to think about things we could change or would want to change, but I think Ghandi had it right. The real change we want to see starts with ourselves, and without it the change will either not happen or not be sustainable. Not that I want to completely change who I am or anything like that, I just will always work to be a better person.”

I definitely agree with Paul and I think we sometimes get lost in our ambitions to change the world and we forget that it starts with our daily actions. If we truly want to make a difference start with ourselves. Paul is someone who is constantly challenging himself to become better even after clearly doing so much.

So next time you see big problems and  don’t know how to fix them, don’t simply complain about them but instead look to people like Paul as a role models and start with something small (giving someone a text book) and realize that those actions can develop into an attitude that can make a large positive impact.

As you read this post, ask yourself what can I do for someone else today?

Continue being kind.


28
Jan 13

TIME: Online Deliberation

Originally when I was hunting for a forum, I was looking for a continuous online message board but quickly I found that those online chats are not as continuous as I would like. I found a few discussions that were popular for a week about a month but then  faded out. So the long term conversations I was originally hoping for does not seem probable. The simple  questions or a topic to discuss on the online messages were not strong enough. In order to really get people talking they need an initial spark or strong guidance.  This is what lead me into looking to news websites, in particular TIME magazine. TIME magazine provides articles that initiate quality commenting conversation that have exigence that specific week. It is a reliable source with a lot of activity.  Every week I will continue to focus on women’s issues in the news. For example this week   one of the articles addressed the issue of women in combat, and already over 100 comments were posted.  (http://nation.time.com/2013/01/24/women-in-combat-shattering-the-brass-ceiling/). This is a heated topic and the people posting  definitely had strong opinions. Some of them were a bit sassy to say the least however  the majority of comments seemed  diplomatic and civil which is encouraging.   Overall I hope I can initiate some conversation and have some fun commenting. From what I can tell a lot of people with a lot of different perspectives are contributing and challenging each other’s opinions and facts so I am excited to see how I stand up against them.


24
Jan 13

Citizen of the Week: Christina Gallagher

 

Meet Christina Gallagher, the  featured Penn State Citizen of the week:Gallagher picture

Christina is in her junior year majoring in journalism and political science. She is columnist for The Daily Collegian and her article this week, “Explore your passions to cause change” is what earned her the title of Citizen of the Week. It is a reminder that inspiring words can change the world and she deserves credit for her message. In this piece, she encourages  Penn State students to do go out and change the world. She talks about how sometimes people have a tendency to ‘wait on the world to change’, as John Mayer calls it.  However Christina explains  it is time for us to take responsibility and quotes Obama in saying, “as citizens, we ‘have the power to set thus country’s course” and “there are a million ways to make a difference”.  So if you get a chance, go read her article. It is a good reminder that we as students have the power to help shape a kinder world.

After reading this article, I got a chance to talk a little further with Christina and get some insight on her definition of a “good citizen”. She explained ,

“Good Citizens are aware of the world around them. They are well informed about the new of their town and want to be a part of it. Good Citizens are people who serve society in some way, whether it is coaching a community basketball team, or serving on their community’s school board.”

In this definition, a citizens are educated, involved and committed in what they do. Christina explained she gets some of her inspiration from her mother, Cindy, who is the strongest person she knows. Cindy is her role model,  battled and survived breast cancer twice and lives her life to the fullest and is a incredibly committed sixth grade teacher.

When asked what she would change in this world, Christina shared “It may sound cliche, but I think I would create world peace”. Although she points out it may be “cliche”, I see nothing wrong in those ambitions and I believe if more people aspired to create it, it might actually happen. She goes further to explain, “There is too much violence and negativity in the world– from school shooting to online bullying to wars raging in the Middle East. The world would be better place if everyone could practice kindness and show compassion”. Although it is sometimes unbelievable that you hold the power to change the world, remember Christina’s message and start with yourself, be kind, be compassionate.  Don’t wait on the world to change, make it happen.

“Never underestimate the ability of a small group of committed individuals to change the world. Indeed, they are the only one who ever have.”- Magaret Mead


23
Jan 13

Reflection on This I believe..

When we got this assignment, I thought it was going to be easy:  I am an opinionated person and I have a lot of beliefs.  I just need to pick one and write about it. Easy. WRONG.

I definitely struggled with this assignment. I think I wrote at least 10 different drafts, and my final product is barely near where I started.

In many of my drafts, I had a tendency to be overly vague.  I realized in my web of thoughts I often abstractly hid from my readers what I actually believed in. In some of my other drafts, I tried to connect every single one of my beliefs into one 500 word essay. I thought I was being philosophical, but I think I was just simply being confusing.

Once I finally settled in on a story things got a little easier. However one story from my life does not just contain one belief. It contains many.  I started to make lists of every belief that came from that one moment in my life and I ended up with 8 different ways I could go.  It was hard for me to pick and choose which specific one I wanted to talk about. I flipped back and forth, jumped from one idea to the other. I felt like I had worked furiously, but I was scattered and got  no where. After realizing I was being inefficient, I finally just picked an idea and went with it. It ended up actually being refreshing to write about, so although this assignment was definitely a struggle for me, it was a challenge worth taking and I definitely got a lot out of it.

 


22
Jan 13

Women’s Rights Around the World: India

I am sure many of you have heard about the brutal  gang rape of a young  girl on a local bus in Delhi. She was simply on her return home from a movie when 6 men violently tortured and raped her. This occurrence has opened people’s eyes to the brutality against women that continues to exist in various parts of society. In over 50 countries laws have been made against rape, however as recent events in India have brought to light, just because the laws are there does not mean they are being put into practice. Although this recent rape has gotten a lot of media attention, the brutality is not what is rare;the fact that it got so much attention and  that the criminals are being convicted is what is unusual. Out of more than 600 rape cases reported in Delhi in 2012, only one led to conviction (NYT).

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Pictured above is a rape map of India of those cases reported to officials (Wall Street Journal). The orange bars on the side show the conviction rate of those accused in each region. In the area with most war and conflict Jammu and Kashmir, the  conviction rate is a shockingly low 8.3% suggesting that those who are committing the crime are not getting punished for it. It is expected that these ratios are actually even smaller because the statistics do not take into account the cases that have not been reported.

So why aren’t people getting convicted?

The  lack of reactivity by officials to convict more criminals according to Sonia Faleiro who live in New Delhi for 24 years is because “sexual harassment is as regular as meal time”(New York Times). In other words, it is has been an accepted part of the culture. And on top of that, the very people that should be upholding justce, the police are a part of the problem. The police force is corrupt and disconnected. One women’s story accounted a police officer laugher with her rapist and then telling her that she “will be ridiculed if she doesn’t settle things without an investigation”(New York Times). Another Indian women accounts, “I have no faith in the police. If you have money or connections, you can get justice. If you don’t, forget it.”

Also the overall cultural acceptance of female harassment and subjection exacerbates the lack of female rights. These cultural attitudes can be tied back to various traditional practices. For example practices such as female infanticide and Sati were heavily practiced up until  1860s when the invasive Britain outlawed them during their imperialistic period. Sati is a hindu practice  in which widows were expected to sacrifice themselves, become cremated with their husbands and be burned to death.

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This practice is rooted in the idea that a widow is a bad woman for not being able to keep her husband alive and she must now go with him in order to be able to serve him in the after life. Infanticide although it is outlawed, there have still been reports of this happening today.  Female infanticide also outlawed is particularly more apparent today in the alarmingly imbalanced sex ratio and although there can be many reasons for abandoning one’s child, the most apparent reason in Indian society is simply that they do not want a girl . A daughter is often viewed a temporary who will one day marry and join a new family are therefore not preferred. According to a 2011 study in the Lancet,  thousands of female babies are abandoned each year. So not only are baby girls are getting stripped of the chance to live, but if they survive adulthood they are expected to endure a society where they are subject to sexual harassment, violence and fear.

Here are some current views (strongly believe by some people) on how to help women who have been raped:

1)A proposal from a rapist is currently viewed as the perfect solution for the victim.

2) Laws have been passed in the northern state of Uttarakhandd  which keep women from working  pass 6 p.m.

3) Women are told to dress more modestly a.k.a. it is their fault for attracting the rapist and are expected to be as invisible as possible ( The Atlantic)

In all of these cases, the victims end up being the ones to blame or are further punished. It follows the skewed concept that “Let there be no mothers/ Let there be no wives/ Let there be no daughters/ And there will be no crimes” (Time Magazine). It scares me to think that that is the attitude that permeates Indian culture. The victims are getting scapegoated with little voice and the police provide little protection. Hopefully this young girl in Delhi will not die in vain and  people will finally realize the critical necessity for improvements.  However, the manner in how to make improvements is a lot harder than simply pointing out the problems.  Changing a cultural perspective is not an easy task, but the equality of women should never be questioned on whether or not it is worth fighting for.

 


16
Jan 13

This I believe…

“What do you want to be when you grow up?”

I would imagine most children respond with doctor, teacher, fireman, police officer, astronaut.

Yet, I wanted to be a mermaid.

And to this day, I relentlessly believe in them.Mermaids—if you have never met one–are grotesquely beautiful, offensively alluring. They embody the in-between, and are explicitly obscure.

They live in a grey area of the ocean which is why we never capture them.

This grey area where the mermaids roam is what interests me, inspires me, infects me. It is where I do most of my thinking.

This grey ocean is a terrible wonder with a screaming silence.

Lost in my own thoughts, the grey engulfs me and allows me to submerge into a different level of consciousness.

The grey is an accepted mystery which makes it easier to sort through contradictions in my mind.

Mermaids have inspired me to believe and trust these terrifying in-betweens.  Nothing amazing is comfortable or in black and white.

I believe in the in-between, the grey area, the fascinating confusion of life.

I believe in mermaids.

My mind like my mermaid friends, is a beautiful mess.

I believe remaining simple in thought is dangerously safe, so I constantly ventures into this gray area only to discover nothing more tangible than more confusion.

The beautiful mess of my mind, this boundless confusion however helps to uncover that there are such things in this world as arrogant humility and gentle turbulence. There are such things as a sad smile, and empty ambition.

These adventures to my depth have made me wisely naïve.

In comparison to my mermaid friends who have seen and know every grey within the ocean, I truly know nothing yet these mermaids taunt me to keep swimming to keep seeking the intangible.

I believe in the power of the in-betweens for discovery.

Most of my discoveries occur on the cross roads of confusion and clarity.

The mermaids, the mysterious, the magical, confuse me, astound me, and motivate me. Mermaids make me believe in the unbelievable. They give me hope that in the clashes of my oppositions something mystical will appear.

When I am lost and confused in this world, which I am more often than not, I remember the terrifying allure of my mermaid friends.  They help me to feel comfortable with the uncomfortable.

It seems to me that people are sometimes afraid to combine the extremes, but to me the ability to scare ourselves is one of the most beautiful components we have on this earth.

I believe in mermaids.

 


16
Jan 13

First Week and No Submissions

Bad News: No official “Citizen of the Week” this week.
Good News: I am hopeful. I think I just need to adjust my tactics and maybe dig a little deeper.
I have written the following all over Penn State Facebook groups:
“Hey everyone,
I am writing a blog featuring “Penn State Citizen of the Week”. If you know someone you would like to nominate, please message me on Facebook or email me at jld5710@psu.edu. In the nomination, please include the person’s name, e-mail and what good deed they performed that makes them deserving of the title “Citizen of the Week”. Feel free to submit any kind of story, super serious to seemingly goofy. For example, I once got a submission about a student who saved an old woman from walking into the men’s bathroom. Have a lovely evening and continue being kind.
Sincerely,
Jenny Dobson”
Do you guys have any suggestions on how to motivate people to write to me?
Should I try a different approach to encourage people? Should I give them extra incentive? If I made a shoe box with paper slips next to it and put it in my dorm lobby, do you think people would be more inclined to write something as they were walking out the door? Should I have people give me verbal nominations?
If in the next week, submissions don’t come in, I could interview the  people in my life who I believe to be outstanding citizens and give them a personal weekly shout-outs. Or I could do a little research, and go out and talk to the people living to support  the greater good .
I am looking for  that one kid who always helps pick up your books, the person who spends his Saturday’s doing community service (and doesn’t boast about it), or the quiet student who dedicates his time in lab to create genetically modified crops that end world hunger.
I know these people are out there.
Who exactly are they?
One of the questions Kyle ask in his comments was whether I could set some criteria for the title “Citizen of the Week”.
In a few words it is hard to fully define what exactly a “Good Citizen” is. If I remember correctly on the first day, Kyle had us describe what a good citizen is to us, and none of us had the same answer( I think I wrote something about integrity and honesty). The fact that we all have such differing ideas of quality citizenship is one of the reasons why I wanted to do this blog. I want to see how the Penn State public defines a “good citizen” and wanted these nominations to display it.  What actions do we believe deserve merit? As Kyle asked in one of his comments, “Is citizenship judged on a single action during that week? Or is citizenship built up over time and commitment?”
I would expect that a good citizen has to be consistently “good” for someone to nominate them, but I was looking for a single story that epitomizes their character.
Anyways, I am suuurre the nominations will start pouring in in no time. Better luck next week.
Have a lovely evening and continue being kind.

09
Jan 13

Civic Issues Blog: Heyyyyy Sexy Lady

I figured I would keep the gangnam style theme going for at least a little longer because it ties in somewhat with what I want to blog about: women.  “Hey Sexy Lady”…?  I personally would prefer a different greeting and I would imagine many other women would agree.  (http://www.stopstreetharassment.org/2012/09/gangnamstyle/) . In the song gangnam style” and across media networks, we see the objectification of women. Was I offended by the song? No. It is catchy and I sang along. In the United States, the objectification of women is often  seen as  harmless, but I wonder if it could hold severe implications.  Around the world, women’s human rights are ignored (ever heard of female circumcision?) and women are viewed as subordinate in patriarchal societies.  I wonder things like whether  the United States’ nonchalant acceptance of objectifying women contributes to our little progress in protecting women from prostitution.

Overall I naturally feel drawn to women’s human rights both domestically and globally. When reading about them I feel this urgency to become a protector and I feel like I need to do something about it. Hopefully while writing these blog posts I will be able to do the necessary research and look for some answers to these complex problems.

I will mainly focus on female’s human rights and shed some light on some of the injustices on women globally and hopefully ways we can improve.


09
Jan 13

Passion Blog: Penn State Citizen of the Week

After a semester of talking, commenting, and making fun of fashion, I have decided to have a change of pace and instead analyze people in a deeper manner than just what they wear. After all, “it is what is on the inside that matters”, right? Following that spirit I will be blogging weekly on the Penn State Citizen of the Week.  My plan right now is to write on the Penn State Facebook group  and provide people with my e-mail in case they wanted to nominate someone as the “Citizen of the Week” with a story of what he or she did. I might also set up drop boxes in the local lounges in my dorm. Once I have someone in mind I will contact that person, briefly interview them, and report back on their “civic duty”.  I recognize that there is a possibility that people may not nominate others and if that is the case, I will keep my own eye out for people doing small acts of kindness. I figure everyone enjoys a little recognition and this will be a fun way to find out all of the good things people are doing around campus.


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