“Be the change you wish to see in the world”-Gandhi
Paul Suhey is a senior who is the president of the special interest organization Apollo, which focuses all its efforts on the mission of THON and the Four Diamonds Fund. Although being president of a THON organization may seem to have earned him the title of citizen on the week in itself, it is actually Paul’s entire attitude for life and dedication to do good in every aspect of what he does that makes him most deserving. His positive energy and perspective is exemplified in simple conversation. For example when I asked his definition of a good citizen is, he responded
“someone who realizes the potential for impact in everything that they do. With this realization, they act in a way to positively affect their surrounding community – no matter how small or big the community may be.”
Paul’s personal acts of kindness big and small epitomizes his good citizenship. Freshman, Jackie Patterson nominated Paul after he offered to sell his organic chemistry text book to her and instead of wanting money, Paul encouraged Jackie to give a donation to THON. It seems simple, but he has just taken one more step in supporting the Four Diamonds Fund. And I want to remind you all that it is these every day actions that lead to being a good citizen. We all have good intentions in trying to help the world, but in order to become good citizens, we must constantly practice our principles.
This picture above is Paul with his Apollo family and friends. He is center right in a bright yellow shirt with a kid on his shoulders. When asked about his experiences with Apollo, Paul explained that “It has taught me never to underestimate the potential of people. From the volunteers in Apollo and THON to the Four Diamonds Families themselves, I will never cease to be amazed by the dedication individuals and groups are willing to put forth. Being surrounded by such compassionate and passionate people has made me a more positive person and given me more perspective on what really matters”
So what does really matter? I encourage you all to reflect and find answers to this question. I know I often get wrapped up in the chaos of school work and various things and I lose sight of what is important. I think hearing and listening to people like Paul is inspiring and it reminds me to open my eyes and see all the good in this world and the potential to make an impact. In attempts to find out more about Paul’s ambitions I asked, “if you had the power to change one thing in this world, what would it be?”. Most people talk about their life goals, careers, ambitions, yet he humbly responded with “Myself” which I think reveals a lot about Paul’s character. He expanded to say,
“I think it is easy to think about things we could change or would want to change, but I think Ghandi had it right. The real change we want to see starts with ourselves, and without it the change will either not happen or not be sustainable. Not that I want to completely change who I am or anything like that, I just will always work to be a better person.”
I definitely agree with Paul and I think we sometimes get lost in our ambitions to change the world and we forget that it starts with our daily actions. If we truly want to make a difference start with ourselves. Paul is someone who is constantly challenging himself to become better even after clearly doing so much.
So next time you see big problems and don’t know how to fix them, don’t simply complain about them but instead look to people like Paul as a role models and start with something small (giving someone a text book) and realize that those actions can develop into an attitude that can make a large positive impact.
As you read this post, ask yourself what can I do for someone else today?
Continue being kind.