Do you know how close it is to Chinese Lunar New Year? It is on this Sunday!!! I am going to my friend’s house to have a traditional Chinese dinner at New Year’s Eve. But when I was still with my family in China, lunar New Year celebration is much more than that!
Just like Christmas and Lent, Lunar New Year is not just one or two days of celebration. Technically the holiday season lasts about a month—ten days before the New Year’s Day for preparation, and fifteen days after the Day until Lantern Festival. But now I am going to pick the five most important days to my family to celebrate our New Year.
Day 1: “Small” New Year’s Eve
It is two days before the New Year. My parents and I start to pack. We are going to my fraternal grandparents’ house, which is only 30 miles away from Changzhou. In China, there is a tradition that after a woman is married to a man, she becomes part of the man’s family and will follow him to visit his parents in major Chinese holidays.
We arrive at my grandparents’ house in the afternoon, and start to decorate the house. (I used to have a lot of pictures but my laptop was broken and this new one has nothing in it, so I can only show you pictures from the Internet.)
Chinese Lanterns and Couplets
Day 2: The New Year’s Eve
It is the second most important day in my seven days. When I was really little, my mom and my grandmother would get up very early to prepare the biggest dinner in the year for my family. It is a LOT of work for them. So we changed the plan from cooking to dinning out since I was ten. Many families like mine also had this change, and now the majority of Chinese living in cities will choose to go to fancy restaurants with family members on New Year’s Eve.
According to Zhongwu5.com, a local website for Changzhou residents, reservations for New Year’s Eve dinner in almost a hundred restaurants across the city are full a month before the New Year ’s Eve. In fact, half of the reservations were made the on the New Year’s Eve at last year. Do you see how popular eating out in China is? Instead of partying, dining with friends is actually the most popular and important way to hang out with family and friends!
This is my best day in the year…because you don’t even know how much delicious food I can eat. So yummy!
A typical New Year’s Eve Dinner!
Day 3: The New Year’s Day
Every kid in China will get up very early today. For what? For pocket money! It is a tradition in China that seniors will give out money in a red envelop to kids who have not married. So today I will get up at 8 a.m., run to my grandparents’ room and say the first greetings to them in the New Year…and…get my pocket money!
Then we will head to the Mao Mountain about 50 miles away to worship in a Taoism temple on top of the mountain, wishing for health and success for family members in the New Year. We will do this every year and even before we got our car. I remember the time my dad rode a motorcycle carrying me and my mom in a rainy New Year’s Day to the mountain. It is not a strong wish or prays for something from the Taoism god; it is a simple belief to wish safety and peace for the family.
The Taoism Temple.
Day 4: The 3rd day of the New Year.
It is the day for families to visit seniors from the mother’s side. My parents and I will go to visit my maternal grandparents’ house. They live very close to us in Changzhou. We will meet my aunt’s family there and we all head to restaurant for another big meal! And of course the time to get pocket money from them! J
Day 5: The 15th day: The Lantern Festival
The 15th day of the New Year marks the end of the holiday season with another huge celebration—the Lantern Festival.
During the day we will eat these round rice balls which means peace and happiness in family members and wish the reunion of the next time (If you read my previous post about Mid-autumn festival you will have an idea).
The climax is at the evening. We will make these paper lanterns and let them fly into the dark sky!!! They are called KongMing Lantern because more than a thousand years ago a guy called KongMing was trapped by enemies. He invented these simple lanterns with alcohol and paper and successfully released signals for help and got out of the enemies’ place. Now we light them for a wish that some of our family members who have passed away or could not make it here can see them.
Isn’t this beautiful?
I got more and more excited when writing about my new year. However, I haven’t celebrated the holiday with my family for three years ever since I came to United States. Now I get a little emotional and really miss my grandparents and the happy time I spent with them.