Are Parents going too Far Buying their Kids Skin Care Products?

This holiday season stores like Sephora and Ulta were packed full of young girls, between ten to fifteen years old. Skin care products were flying off the shelves with young girls trying to make their skin not wrinkle. Things like cleanser, toner, serums , and moisturizers were being taken by these children who barely know what they are or they do. However, it comes with the question: do these young girls really need these products? One of the larger issues I see is that their parents are allowing their kids to make these purchases without doing research into them. Skin care while can be helpful and can maintain or skin is simply not needed by girls under twelve, the dermatologist recommended age.

A normal skin care routine for a young girl is a cleanser, toner, sun screen, and moisturizer. These few products will do good for a young girl going through puberty. They don’t need harsher products do their skin being so young and sensitive. Things like sermus and exfoliants often irritate the skin. This can lead to rashes and a burning sensation on the skin. Many do not need those products yet parents continue to let their ten year old daughter buy them because she saw it on Tik Tok or Instagram.

Many different skin care routines are shown on social media. This paints a picture that a skin care routine is needed. Young girls see these products and decide that they need them without doing research on the effects of the product. This puts our young kids at risk of damaging their skin.

One of the main products in concern is retinol. Retinol is a product that increases skin cell production to unclog pores and prevent wrinkles. This product is often very harsh on young skin as it is ment do women ages 18-24. Some dermatologists will recommend retinol for extremely dry skin or if there is a specific need for it but most don’t need it until early adulthood. Parents are buying their kids this product without doing their research. This has led to many kids feeling a burning sensation underneath their eyes and getting rashes. On top of how expensive this product is.

Many skin care products are getting rather expensive especially if you buy them at stores like Sephora. Many parents are emptying their bank accounts trying to please their kids with the next Drunk Elephant products. With this increase in spending came a sense of entitlement in these kids. Many sephora workers report young girls acting extremely rude and entitled. With little girls running all over Sephora and fighting over a Dior lip oil. Many of these parents leave these kids unsupervised, per the reports. It is not a Sephora employee’s responsibility to parent and chase these kids.

Parents need to take more responsibility for what they are buying their kids. Young girls do not need tons of skin care products and they certainly don’t need retinol. These products are excessively expensive and often lead to kids having a bad attitude. These skin care routines are excessive and people need to research what is being put on their kid’s skin.

Work Cited

Choudhury, Sourab. “Guiding Parents through a Safe and Effective Pediatric Skincare Routine.” Practical Dermatology, Bryn Mawr Communications, practicaldermatology.com/articles/2019-aug/guiding-parents-through-a-safe-and-effectivepediatric-skincare-routine. Accessed 25 Jan. 2024.

Professional, Cleveland Clinic medical. “Retinol: Cream, Serum, What It Is, Benefits, How to Use.” Cleveland Clinic, my.clevelandclinic.org/health/treatments/23293-retinol. Accessed 25 Jan. 2024.

Is a Miscarriage an Abortion

When I was in fifth grade I attended a small private Catholic school; one of the topics taught to us was religion. My teacher at the time was very religious and almost jaded women. She spoke with authority and what she said is what would happen. Even though she was often strict during her class she would often veer off topic going on to talk about her personal life. She would talk about how her son is doing in school or about how her husband is a firefighter. One time she went on to talk about her first miscarriage.

She shared this story as if she were a hero, like she was doing the right thing but, when I heard it all I could think about is the poor hospital workers who had to deal with her. When she was diagnosed with the miscarriage she had to sign a contract to insure that she was informed and consents for the medical procedure. On this contract it wrote the medical term for abortion: “spontaneous abortion”. This sparked rage in my teacher. She told us how she screamed and yelled at the workers to change the contract to miscarriage. She refused to sign a document that used the word abortion at all. Even though she didn’t have an abortion in the form she was thinking even the thought of an abortion sent her into a fit. She refused to continue with the procedure until they changed the term, even though miscarriages get riskier the longer the child remains. This very tantrum could have left her with long term damage or even death in rare situations. When she told the story she appeared very proud of her accomplishment. She spoke as if she was bragging about yelling at these doctors for their “unrighteous” terminology.

When I heard the story I realized that this behavior wasn’t exactly normal. I can understand having a strong connection to  your faith but to the point if endangering your life over a minor terminology just seems a little overkill. Abortion alone is already such a controversial topic and causes outrage throughout the U.S. but to scream at the doctors trying to help you over the terminology for a miscarriage just seems a little pompous and uncaring. The doctors were simply trying to do their jobs in a safe and timely manner. I can’t imagine the amount of stress put on those doctors during this time. Religion should not be a weapon used against small things such as terminology.

This story made me wonder if religion is worth the time and devotion that people put into it? This squabble, over terminology almost ended up with harm to my teacher. Is this really worth it? Would we not believe that God understands that a miscarriage is different form the fine print. Isn’t it that trust in God that gets us into heaven? In my experience with religion and in my own belief God would have an understanding that in this scenario the term “abortion” isn’t what actually occurred.

Personal is Political and Civic Issues Blog Topics

Personal is Political:

A series of blogs where I discuss stories from my life and apply them to political issues. Then I will discuss why we should care about the topic or why we shouldn’t care as a society. Sifting topics and political ideas and deciding on whether or not they are worth speaking on.

Civic Issues:

Series of blogs that take an ethical analysis in pop culture such as is south park to offensive for television, do rappers glamorize gang activity, are the kardashians a bad influence for young girls.

I Believe in Tipping Servers/Bartenders.

Wages in America often vary by the kind of job a person holds. However, one of the most complexing and intricate manners of being paid is surprisingly a simple serving job. While usually jobs like teaching, doctors, higher level accountants, etc… have a salary and lower level jobs like fast food and retail have an hourly rate while servers and bartenders make most of their money vis tips. This is unusual because the company itself isn’t paying most their employee’s pay. It is up to us, the general public, to pay the wages of these workers. Restaurants and bars figured out that they could avoid paying their employees pay if the public could tip their servers/bartenders enough to meet minimum wage. However, with a toxic tipping culture uprising, inflation rising, and a decline in restaurant goers, post Covid-19, tips just don’t seem to make ends meet anymore. This has overall, diminished tips and the overall salary of these workers. I believe that servers/bartenders deserve to be tipped an appropriate amount.

To start off this discussion, I would like to define an appropriate tip. In today’s climate with a rise in inflation and modern dollar not being worth what it was ten years ago, a small tip just doesn’t pay the bills. Restaurants often pay their servers and bartenders a below minimum wage around two dollars an hour and expect their tips to get them a livable wage. However, the guests in restaurants want to pay as little as possible to save money, which is understandable. These contradictory values often end up with servers and bartenders being underpaid and unable to pay the bills. So, for now while server’s livelihood ride on making tips the appropriate tip would be 18-22%.

While servers should always be trying their best to service their tables, mistakes are often made. Weather it be due to a servers neglect to the tables or the kitchen missing an order, the server is often the one blamed by the guest. This means that regardless of who made the mistake even if it wasn’t the server, it’s the server’s tips that suffer.  Many people also try to complain about their service on purpose so that their check gets reduced and avoid tipping. This shows that many people want a service but don’t want to pay for it.

In my own experience as a server I have often been tipped poorly at tables I’ve done my best work on. I would make sure their orders were correct, grab every drink refill, and add some personality but, I would often fall flat on the tip. Many other servers have a similar experience and have more on the line then I do. Almost all servers/bartenders rely on their tips. If their not being tipped appropriately to their service or for the society that we are in many will not be able to pay the bills.

Overall, many people go to restaurants but don’t think about the effect that their tip has on their server’s life. Many want a service but don’t want to pay for it. Many would rather save money then take care of their servers. While I understand not tiiping well if your server is legitimately a bad server and not doing their job. However, if your server is doing their job to the best of their ability, they should be tipped appropriately. So, I believe that servers/bartenders deserve to be tipped appropriately.

Works Cited

https://www.cnn.com/2023/08/13/business/covid-restaurant-industry/index.html

https://www.dol.gov/general/topic/wages/wagestips#:~:text=A%20tipped%20employee%20engages%20in,equals%20the%20federal%20minimum%20wage.

RCL(pt2): Ideas for Blogs

This I Believe:

  • A podcast about how I believe that abortion is a human right
  • A podcast about how I believe that global warming is coming soon
  • A podcast about how I believe that humanity is inherently good

 

Personal is Political:

  • A series of blog where I discuss stories from my life and apply them to political issues where I discuss why we should care about the topic or why we shouldn’t care as a society.
  • Random stories from my life that applies to politics
  • Stories about aging like sweet sixteen, getting drivers license, graduation high school, first pimple

Civic Issues:

  • Series of blogs about various issues that occur in the environment such deforestation, coral bleaching, or global warming
  • Series of blogs that take an ethical analysis in pop culture such as is south park to offensive for television, do rappers glamorize gang activity, are the kardashians a bad influence for young girls