After being in college for a couple months, I’ve settled into a routine with my classes, school work, and lifestyle in a new setting. Likewise, I have settled into a routine with my social life as new traditions have formed throughout the week.
The first tradition is a hangout at my brother’s house every Tuesday night, or as we cleverly named it, “Tuesdays”. Since before I was born, a weekly hangout has been a tradition in my family. When my dad and two uncles were in their 20’s and 30’s, the three of them got together every Wednesday night for a tradition they called “Wackiness”. They would eat loads of snacks, stay up late, and most importantly play board games like Monopoly, Risk, and Poker as they got rowdy and competitive in the wife-free environment. When my brother, cousin, and I were born, the tradition strayed away from weekly and became more of an occasional get-together, but it was still something we really wanted to be a part of as we watched our dads honor their tradition. Once we grew older, we joined them for their occasional Wackiness’s and learned the ins and outs of the tradition. When my brother and my older cousin left for college, we postponed our Wackiness tradition until their winter and summer break, but while they were in college, they started the new Tuesdays tradition. This year, with my brother as a senior and my cousin as a junior, I made it to Penn State just in time to join the new tradition. Every Tuesday night, my brother drives me and my roommate to his house on the edge of campus, and we hang out there till late in the night with my cousin and his roommate. Instead of playing board games, we usually order Papa John’s and chill in their living room, jamming to music or watching any sports on TV. It’s a great way to unwind in the middle of the work week and talk to my brother and cousin, who I don’t see often as a freshman. Next year, I will be living in that house with my cousin, so we will definitely keep the Tuesdays tradition alive, even in the absence of my brother.
The next tradition that has been a large part of my freshman year is poker night. Every Wednesday night, I get together with 4 of my friends on my dorm floor, and we play poker for $5 each, something college kids consider to be high stakes. In one of our dorm rooms, we set up a fold out table, squeeze foldout chairs wherever we can fit them around the table, and divvy up $5 worth of chips to each person. Then, the games begin. We keep our rules simple to avoid any confusion. We play only Texas Hold ’em, rotate dealers, and stop once we all get tired or agree to stop the game. When someone runs out of chips, they can buy $2.50 more to keep playing, or cut their losses at $5. At the end of the game, we count our chips and cash out accordingly. Living on 5th floor Packer together for a couple months, we’ve become very comfortable with each other, so the games are friendly yet competitive as we all talk smack and take immense pride in beating each other in a betting battle. It’s a fun tradition that I’m excited to continue during the rest of my freshman year and hopefully the rest of my time in college.
During the grueling work week, having these designated times to unwind with my friends helps me immensely with lowering stress, and overall, they make college during Covid-19 much more fun. I’m excited to see these traditions evolve and what new traditions will form during my time in college.
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