Being away from Colombia for so long it’s one of the hardest things I have ever gone through. Not seeing my dad for the last three years, seeing pictures of my friends graduating without me, and missing out the wonderful food we serve in there; it has not been easy. Lately I have notice how I forget certain words in Spanish, most of the slangs that I used to say make no sense to me anymore. Whenever I talked with my dad on the phone, I notice how hard he tries to not express himself as he would regularly just in case I don’t understand a slang. Although I tried to connect with more Latinos here at Penn State, I am too busy with my academics. I basically gave up on my second semester and decided it was not worth my time.
In my work at Schreyer, I met Dr. Richard Stoller, the coordinator of academic of advising and international programs. He is really passionate about Colombia and when another staff member talk to him about me. We have talked more lately and last week he mentioned me about some students from Ibague, Colombia, coming here to State College. He asked me if I wanted to go to dinner with them and talk to them about my story.
It was last Monday at 6pm, I decided to not go to my Chemistry recitation class and attend the dinner. Of course, I was late to the dinner. I got there at like 6:15. I was so embarrassed because I always hate when people are late. Anyways, when I got there I just basically started talking to them and explaining whatever they wanted. I honestly planned to leave there by like 8pm and start doing homework. It didn’t turn that way, I ended up talking with 3 girls until 8:30 at the restaurant. It felt so good just talking Spanish with people I didn’t know. Their names are Juliana, Vanessa, and Alejandra. They are really funny although Alejandra is kinda sick for something that appeared in her eye (she is getting better tho). Anyways, it just feel like I was home again for a brief moment in time. Of course this didn’t last, we headed out to the snowy day in April.
The next day they asked me if I wanted to eat something with them. With no hesitation I agree to the invitation and head towards Five Guys. We again had a great time, just sharing stories and talking. On Thursday, their last day here in State College, we head to a hookah place in college avenue. As I’m writing this tonight, next to them, I’m sad they are going to leave and I’ll be here again with a few Colombians, but glad they remind me how Colombians really behave.