EmpowHER

Over the past two weeks, I have had opportunities to hear multiple unbelievably inspiring women speak, thanks to Penn State. As a public university, Penn State does an outstanding job at gathering accomplished public figures to present their stories to PSU students. Constantly, there are chances for students to attend presentations or lectures that will help us make progress in fulfilling our life’s aspirations.

Last Tuesday, I attended Jill Biden’s presentation in Eisenhower Auditorium. Prior to the talk, I was unfamiliar with Jill’s work. During her speech, she discussed her experiences as a professor at a community college. She described how many of her immigrant students are some of the most motivated and hardworking individuals she has ever met, even though some of them are homeless and live in cars. Jill emphasized the courage that can be found within women who have children to raise and positions of employment to maintain but who also dream of going to school. On rainy Wednesday, I had a long morning and felt compelled to skip my math lecture. However, I was struck with an overwhelming amount of self-reflection regarding Jill’s speech. It reminded me of my aunt’s journey for higher education, in which she needed to work a full-time job in order to put herself through college and still finished her undergrad in three years. It also reminded me of my parents, who were not afforded the opportunity to attend college at all. Now, after 12 years of banking employment, my mom is unemployed and yearns to go to school. While reflecting on Jill’s words and relating them to my own family, I realized that nowadays, we see the price tag that is attached to an education, but we fail to recognize its innate value. As you can probably guess from where this story is going, I decided to attend my math class.

On Thursday, a campus organization that I am involved with, Schreyer for Women, allowed me the opportunity to hear from the executive director of the Hekima Place, Jenny Roach. The Hekima Place is a home for girls in Kenya that provides life necessities, love, and proper educations. Jenny grew up in Wales, where she was severely bullied and told that she would never amount to anything. Overcoming the hardships of depression, suicidal attempts, and self-doubt, Jenny’s life changed when she visited Kenya and felt at home. She persistently traveled to the country, and eventually was offered a position as one of the executive directors of the Hekima Place. Jenny’s story, along with the heartening tales from my TA, Maddie, has instilled a desire in me to travel to Hekima this May to work with some of the girls there.

This Monday evening, I had the pleasure of listening to the author of It’s What I Do, Lynsey Addario speak in Schwab Auditorium. As you all already know, Penn State Reads is a program that strives to spark intellectual engagement in students, and Lynsey’s book has done just that for me. As demonstrated in my It’s What I DO RCL blog posts, I have a strong admiration of Lynsey and the irreplaceable work that she has completed in such a relatively short lifetime. During her lecture on Monday, Lynsey mentioned how she forgives the men who captured her in Libya and feels cowardly a majority of the time while in these foreign countries. Her prominent sense of humility and respect for others is enlivening and propels me to be an innovator like her.

Jill Biden, Jenny Roach, and Lynsey Addario are all powerful women who have displayed their abilities to change the world. I walked away from each of their talks feeling a stirring going on within me. I have been more excited to tackle my school assignments, journal about my inner insights, and submerge myself in the world around me. Penn State brings inspirational speakers onto campus very frequently, and I implore you all to take advantage of these opportunities when they present themselves.

United Through Stress (and Sweatpants?)

As I was walking home from class Tuesday morning, I spotted a sight that was much too entertaining to spot at such an early hour. Seriously, you’d never guess what it was…but don’t worry, because I’m going to tell you. It was a pair of boys! Wearing pajamas! The footie kind! Onesies, I tell you. Assuredly, it was a “made you look!” kind of moment.

Today I write to bring you a different kind of post. In my past two blog posts, I’ve analyzed apparent and relatively tangible happy things. But today’s happy thing is a little bit more of an idea, and it’s much more perspective-based. So without further ado, let me bring to your attention my interpretation of the interesting clothing combinations that I’ve seen across campus.

Undeniably, there exists a prototype for the stereotypical college student. Messy hair, bags under the eyes, countless coffee cups, and equal amounts of homework and stress. But what would you describe to be the standard outfit of this disastrous college student? Back in August and early September, I observed my peers putting effort into their outfits for class each day- sundresses, polo shirts, nice pants, cute skirts…but in recent weeks, however, I’ve noticed a shift in the attire of these same Penn Staters. The semester is becoming more and more involved as we near the midway point, and things like our appearances are being pushed down on the list of our priorities. Flannel pajama pants, the baggiest of baggy sweatshirts, Ugg boots, and fuzzy neon socks are being pulled out from storage and hitting the campus sidewalks. Oh, and let’s not forget the iconic socks and sandals combo. Such a classic.

The best part about this wardrobe change is that it’s okay! It would be very easy for people to look down on others for looking disheveled when the times get tough, but I don’t see that happening on our campus. Sure, we may chuckle at the especially quirky outfits (I don’t know what kind of person wouldn’t be amused by the onesie boys), but we don’t laugh at our peers…we laugh with them! After all, we have all been there before, and surely, we can all relate. Penn State students are all united by one driving force- the pursuit of a higher education and of course, maintaining that ever important GPA. And as we all know, these things don’t come without hard work and the inevitable long nights of grueling studying. Unfortunately, the grind is not always pretty! These lazy staple pieces of clothing have become a symbol of hard work. We, as students, recognize the necessity of placing our educations above how cute or trendy our everyday outfits look. 

In fact, the way I perceive it, it’s an admirable thing that students here at Penn State feel comfortable enough to step out of our dorms in clothes that we may have only ever worn around our homes with our families. Or maybe, we just feel like our peers are our family, and our campus is our home. And at home, pajamas and slippers are always welcomed and highly encouraged.