Conversion therapy for sexual orientation and gender identity should be considered a hate crime. The dictionary definition of “hate crime” is, “a crime motivated by racial, sexual, or other prejudice, typically one involving violence,” so why is conversion therapy an exception? In most of New York, and many states across the country, conversion therapy is legal to perform on minors, and often includes the use of drugs, mental abuse, and even violence, based on someone’s sexual orientation or gender identity. There are only 8 full states out of the 50 in the United States that have outlawed conversion therapy, those being Vermont, Connecticut, California, Oregon, Washington, Illinois, New Mexico, and Nevada. Some states have regions that have outlawed that practice by city, while most of these 8 states have passed state-wide legislation.
I have a friend that went through conversion therapy when they were 16 years old because of their sexual orientation, and they were never the same afterwards. They have gone through so much trauma that they still can’t talk about it to this day, and people are still blind to this issue. This country voted for a presidential administration, Mike Pence specifically, who is in favor of conversion therapy. In favor of hurting our youth. In favor of putting a child through such misery that they would rather kill themselves than be who they truly are. Having a friend think this way is one of the most heartbreaking things I didn’t even have to go through. With only sheer empathy for them because of the discrimination, hatred, and violence I have faced for being a queer person only lets me see part of their trauma. Hate is raging on, but awareness might just save us from hurting more people.
Some examples of shows and movies that address the issues with conversion therapy can help to address this issue as well. The movie that has a whole plotline around conversion therapy is But I’m a Cheerleader, starring Natasha Lyonne as Megan Bloomfield released the year I was born, 1999. This movie used satire in order to prove a point about how ridiculous this type of thinking is. Some of the ways satire is used is assigning gender roles to those who wouldn’t normally fit these stereotypes; making all the girls wear pink, feminine clothing when most of their styles differ, making the boys wear blue and not allowed to accessorize or use makeup, making the woman learn how to change diapers/clean to get the “straight mentality” flowing in their minds, having the guys perform their strength even though many of them were scrawny and nonathletic. After going through the program, you would “graduate” with a marriage between one of the girls and one of the boys, that they barely know.
In Riverdale, Cheryl Blossom, played by Madelaine Petsch starts showing interest in Toni Topaz, played by Vanessa Morgan, and Cheryl’s mother Penelope doesn’t approve with the relationship. It isn’t the first time she disapproved of someone that Cheryl started to become interested in; Cheryl confesses that she did love another girl but her mother sent her away so she could be “normal,” but now she is trying another method by sending Cheryl to gay conversion therapy. When Toni asks about Cheryl, Penelope says that she was sent to an all-girls boarding school in Switzerland, and Season 2 Episode 17 is mostly about her and Veronica Lodge, played by Camila Mendes, getting Cheryl out.
Some similarities between them is both instances, people outside the program would help find ways to help other people escape, even without knowing the people they will be helping; the gay men who would sneak out the kids in their van in But I’m a Cheerleader never even met most of these people before, and the people who found routes to get out of the nunnery in Riverdale made sure to let other people in the community know about the tunnels. Both stories also discuss the “reasons” why the person in question might have “become” gay — expressing some reasons being: getting dressed in boys clothing, lack/poor fatherly figure role, going through stressful times, not meeting the right boy yet, etc. There was a point brought up by the people that were trying to help her “get better” that maybe Cheryl “thinks she’s gay” because her grandmother would accidentally dress her in her twin brother’s clothes (and vice versa), and it just shows that people think there is a cause to this “illness.” With the plot line that Cheryl is attracted to girls as well as boys, but her mother neglecting to love her because of her “deviance,” people can see why Cheryl can me so mean sometimes, since she can’t be herself in her own household. And even through another medium, the first musical that I have ever watched that even addressed the issue of conversion therapy was actually on Penn State campus.
I watched the Penn State production of Love in Hate Nation four times in the span of three days because I’ve never loved a musical so much. I already have such a passion for musical theatre in the first place, but there is usually at least one thing that I find wrong/could be better with the musicals I watch or am in. “Love in Hate Nation” is the exception, where I absolutely love the music, the choreography, the characters, the plot, the story, the use of the set – everything. And one of the issues they addressed in the story was shock therapy. There were so many great messages in the musical, but one of the conflicts was that in the detention center, the mother put her daughter through shock therapy to shock the gay away, and it was warned to the other characters that, “if Ms. Asp ever caught [them] doing anything… bad, she’d call Dr. Shockski.” Then they sang a song about “Doc Shock” and “that’s the best way to get the strange out.” This deeply troubles me to think about, especially since others are forcing their ideals onto you, and probably messing you up psychologically (even though they think they’re fixing you). I already feel like unsupportive parents are already hard enough to deal with mentally, but for them to go so far as to try change their way of thinking with pain and torture, that is simply cruel.
Hurting anyone is uncalled for, but especially when the basis of this hatred and torture is people trying to be who they really are, that’s when I truly see how heartless people can be. There are so many larger issues than who someone loves in the world that it shouldn’t even be talked about anymore, to be honest.