In class, we learned about mood disorders, and specifically, major depressive disorder. Depression is one of the most common reasons why people seek professional help. It is usually a response to past or current loss. Depression slows people down, defuses aggression and restrains risk taking. PET scans have shown that people with depression have lower brain energy consumption. The social cognitive perspective explains that depression can arise partly from self-defeating beliefs and negative explanatory styles. People who tend to explain with stable, global, or internal styles tend to be more depressed/have a higher chance of depression than those who explain with temporary, specific, or external styles. Temporary, specific, and external explanations mean that the person has successful coping skills, rather than those who use stable, global, or internal. Some signs of depression are: tiredness and lethargy, feeling of worthlessness, loss of interest in family and friends, and a loss of interest in activities. If these signs last more than two weeks, you might have depression, and should seek help/go to therapy.
One of my close family members ended up being diagnosed with depression in October 2017. She was starting her freshman year of college for music education and she was so excited to be starting. The more she was in college, the more overwhelmed she felt and the more, as she explains it, “worthless”, that she couldn’t do it. One of her professors told her that “school comes first and mental health comes second”. So, she pushed herself past her breaking point, lost all interest in music, and she sadly ended up trying to commit suicide, which lead to her being hospitalized for 3 days. She then had to drop out of college because her mental health had to come first. She then went home and started going to therapy. She has been in a much better place since then, and she recently has finished an intensive 3-month therapy program. Since then, she has started talking about going back to college for music education and has become much better after going to therapy.
She says that if she didn’t go to therapy, that she probably would not have gotten better. She started to become herself again, and the whole family saw a difference in her too.