As chemistry class came to an end, my friend and I started walking to our next class. We began talking about what we were going to do that weekend and he asked me if I had anything fun planned. I told him that my friends and I were going to go out to dinner that night at this one restaurant, but for the life of me, I could not remember the name of the restaurant. I could imagine what it looked like, where it was located, and what the word looked like. I could even remember what the first letter of it was which led to me trying to sound it out in a million different ways. This caused me to sound like a child reading a book for the first time so I stopped. My friend eventually gave up on trying to help me figure it out even though he could tell I was clearly frustrated. He began to continue on and tell me of his plans for the weekend. I completely tuned him out. The only thing I was focused on was figuring out the name of that restaurant. I had no idea why I could not let it go but I just kept trying to think of anything that would help me get the name out of my head. I knew it was in there somewhere. As we walked and my friend continued to be clueless that I was not listening to a thing he was saying, it came to me. “Rotelli’s!” I burst out. My friend turned to me with a baffled expression on his face. “Huh? What does that have to do with snow tubing?” He asked me. I assumed that is what he had been talking about at that moment. “That’s where I’m going to dinner tonight!” I exclaimed. “You know that was about five topics ago. Have you even been listening to me this whole time?” he asked. “Of course I have, don’t be silly!” I answered. I later learned in psychology class that what happened to me actually had a technical term in the world of psychology and it was called the tip of the tongue phenomena.
The tip of the tongue phenomena is defined as being able to say things about the word that you are thinking of but not being able to recall the word. Some examples would be knowing the number of letters in the word or what the first letter in the word is but not know the actual word itself. The phenomenon is a problem with retrieval in the brain. Retrieval cues explain that memories are held in storage by a web of associations, which are like “anchors” that help retrieve the memory. With the tip of the tongue phenomena, one can remember the web but it is almost like it is unlinked from that thing the person is trying to remember. As the person thinks they know the word it gives the effect that they are about to say it and it is on the tip of their tongue. They simply cannot remember the entire word because the web is not fully connected.