As Americans today, we live in a world full of rising tensions, disagreement, and conflict. Conflict can be described as an incompatible clash between opposing ideals or individuals. We are surrounded by this today, from arguments in bagel stores every morning over a warm coffee, to Israel and Palestine killing innocent people, everywhere we look there is some sort of conflict.
It some circumstances, it will always be unavoidable to get along with everyone, especially in a setting like college, where thousands of students learning their place in the world are in one environment together. As college students we are just starting to learn what we believe is right and our opinions on other issues are still forming, this leads to a clash of ideas because students are all raised differently and form different places affecting their ideals.
There are many ways as students we can avoid conflict, a major one being to recognize that everyone has an opinion different form yours and that is totally okay, you can have a healthy debate on issues but realize that you may not change their mind and there is nothing wrong with that.
Part of the college experience is meeting new people and with that comes the issue of conflict, a major thing everyone needs to learn in college is to take nothing to heart, you can have a heated debate with friends leading to a stalemate but learn to not hold anything against them just move on with the day and hour life.
Now, how can moving “off the grid” help you avoid conflict in your life? An obvious benefit is the lack of people surrounding you, that is not saying that people always lead to conflict, but the less people you surround yourself with the less times you will come head-to-head with conflict. Another factor is that when you move into these areas you are usually only surrounding yourself with peoples whose company you enjoy thus leading to an escape from conflict.
Moving “off the grid” allows you as an individual to disassociate with the conflicts going on across the world. It seems like every day a new country is being bombed and more people are suffering over a stupid disagreement it can be extremely depressing at times. Studies show that people who have less access and pay less attention to news are overall much happier thus leading to them avoiding further conflicts in life.
As a whole, conflict is something prevalent in all walks of life, in some instances it is unavoidable but there are steps to take to minimize disagreements which include taking nothing to heart and recognizing the importance of conflicting ideals.