I agree with what Sheryl Stanberg has to say about authentic communication. I know for some people it can be challenging to communicate authentically in fear of being judged or worry about how others feel.

I especially connect with what she says first about honest communication because it is something I struggle with. I often worry about standing out and do not want to cause an issue when it comes to speaking up. However, it is an important part of voicing your own opinion and making sure you do not go unheard. What she says about the difference between children and adults when it comes to honesty within communication is very true. Children have no filter and will say what comes to their mind, but as we become adults, we are more conscious of what we say. I think this can have positive and negative effects. Being conscious of what you say can aid in filtering your speech to be more accommodating of those around you. On the other hand, it can make you not speak your mind and you could be pushed around or, frustrated with an outcome because you chose to not speak your mind.

When Stanberg talks about accountability, it hit home for me. Holding my something accountable was something I used to struggle to do.

If one does not hold themselves accountable it can make for difficult and stressful situations. I appreciate what she had to say about doing everything you can to make sure work is completed and not allowing for excuses to be made. Excuses can be dangerous and likely will just dig a bigger hole. Honesty goes a long way. Respect from others is gained when you hold yourself accountable as well. It takes character to admit you did something wrong and fix the issue.