To be completely honest, I have conflicting feelings towards gifted programs. I was first placed into one after moving to State College during 4th grade, and was consequently pushed 2 years ahead in math classes in 5th grade. I undoubtedly benefitted from this: it secured me spots in the gifted programs at the middle school and high school, gaining access to special academic counseling and allowing me to take harder classes that granted me acceptance into prestigious programs and scholarships. On the other hand, it’s caused me a great deal of mental and emotional strife, falling into existential depression and dealing with constant perfectionism and self-consciousness. Many fall into the same pattern as well: they excel in elementary and middle school, only to burn out and lack any motivation or study skills to prepare them for college or adult life.
Everyone wants to be gifted because gifted kids have it easy. We laud child prodigies because of their effortless talent, their ability to excel while barely trying. However, giftedness is often a double-edged sword. I remember back in elementary school, I would always describe myself as “smart” because that’s how my friends, family, and teachers told me they perceived me as. I held that to be synonymous with school being easy; I should be getting A’s on tests without having to study. But then high school happened. I started slipping behind my close friends in math — one of my insecurities used to be never having qualified for the American Invitational Mathematics Exam. It didn’t matter that it was an extremely rigorous test that most adults would have trouble completing, I told myself that I was a failure. I was no longer smart, I was no longer gifted. Being in a gifted program had developed perfectionism, something that continually haunts me to this day.
A Greek study found that gifted students regularly underperformed academically against their peers later in life. To me, this isn’t much of a surprise. As the situations we face grow harder and harder, no amount of pure intellect will be sufficient to overcome these obstacles. And without the prior experience of having to perservere through challenges, it becomes easier to quit and stick to what you’re good at. It severely limits your ability to grow and have a successful career.
Dr. Alok Kanojia, a Harvard-trained psychiatrist, goes so far as to say gifted kids are actually special needs kids. Not in the colloquial meaning of having learning disabilities, but having a special set of learning needs that typically isn’t properly addressed in the public education system. Much of the time, gifted kids aren’t challenged enough in their classes and are simply assigned more work to do, resulting in frustration and lack of motivation. They need to be taught to have grit and to be able to fail to reduce the immense pressures of high expectations. Just because they get good grades doesn’t mean they’ll be fine on their own and that we can ignore them.