Candice Dolgash
Over the last few decades, researchers in the leadership field have (finally) started asking the question, “Why aren’t there more women in elite leadership positions?”
You would think, after the Civil Rights Act of 1964, which bans job discrimination by race, sex, color, religion, or national origin, that there is now no reason we would not see as many – or even nearly as many – women as men in executive positions.
I asked a friend to name a few female CEO’s, off of the top of his head. His response was, “Well, there’s that one from General Motors.” One response… and not even a name.
(The reason given, when prompted, of why he thought of her was because she’s recently been in the news, for having to testify, on behalf of GM, for a failure to recall autos with faulty ignition switches.)
Unfortunately, this is not unusual. There have been numerous attempts to explain why women are still underrepresented in major leadership positions. Some focus on women’s “lack of human capital investment” in education, training, and work experience, although there is not substantial evidence to support this.
There is evidence that women assume significantly more domestic responsibility, which contributes to less work experience and career interruptions. Also, and unfortunately, women receive less formal training and have fewer developmental opportunities at work than men (Northouse, 2013).
Aside from these, the most strongly supported explanation is, simply, predjudice. Gender stereotypes are still in evidence today. The feminine is still not aligned with our society’s idea of leadership. These biases are damaging to the process of selecting leaders in the workplace.
Perhaps, there’s even more to this than we realize.
I read an interesting article, by Soraya Chemaly (2014), called, “10 Words Every Girl Should Learn.” In it, she postulates that, due to differences in child rearing and socailization, men simply don’t listen to women. And not in the way that you ask your significant other to take out the garbage and it doesn’t get done for 3 days. More like in the way that they don’t allow us our fair share of the conversation.
Chemaly (2014) states that, “We socialize girls to take turns, listen more carefully, not curse, and resist interrupting in ways we do not expect boys to.” “I routinely find myself in mixed-gender environments (life) where men interrupt me.” “This irksome reality goes along with another — men who make no eye contact. For example, a waiter who only directs information and questions to men at a table, or the man last week who simply pretended I wasn’t part of a circle of five people (I was the only woman).”
Chemaly (2014) credits writer, Rebecca Solnit, with giving the explanation that the tendency some men have to grant their own speech greater import than a perfectly competent woman’s is not a universal male trait, but the “intersection between overconfidence and cluelessness where some portion of that gender gets stuck. ”
This idea is closely related to the concept of homosocial reproduction, a tendency for a group to reproduce itself in its own image (Kanter, 1977). People have an inherent preference for the thoughts and opinions of others like them.
She continues to offer numerous examples in society that show men’s speech being given more authority and creditbility: classrooms, boardrooms, legislative bodies, media, religious institutions, even courtrooms (Chemaly, 2014).
Perhaps, part of, or yet another, component in gender prejudice in leadership positions is this “socialized male speech dominance.” If we’re not being heard, we can’t be recognized.
So, what can we, as competent, intellegent, capable women do to enact change? Chemaly (2014) suggests we learn, and teach your daughters, the following phrases:
- “Stop interrupting me,”
- “I just said that,” and
- “No explanation needed.”
Northouse, P.G. (2013). Leadership: Theory and Practice (6th ed.). Thousand Oaks, CA: SAGE Publications, Inc.
Chemaly, S. (2014, Jun 30). 10 Words Every Girl Should Learn. Huffington Post, The Blog. Retrieved from http://www.huffingtonpost.com/soraya-chemaly/10-words-every-girl-should-learn_b_5544203.html?ncid=fcbklnkushpmg00000063
Kanter, R. (1977). Men and women of the corporation. New York: Basic Books.