As a woman in a STEM field, I have seen first hand the diversity problems for other women in math, science, technology and engineering. Some of it is more casual, where in any in-major classes I’m in are usually about 90% men. This is the same for events, interviews, and workshops. It can be intimidating and I have never noticed anything done at events for the female minority there specifically, but I have been to events just for women in STEM. I have been in group projects multiple times where I am the only female, putting me in the position of being the voice not only of women, but a lot of other minority groups as well. One time for a project, I discussed how our use of technology may be an issue because we would be working with the Amish Community, who typically don’t use technology. Most of the situations I’ve been put into I have the same resources as everyone else, but certain days it feels like I have to do so much more in terms of consideration.
While this can be frustrating, it becomes harmful when men get preferential treatment. One example is when I worked for Ferguson Enterprise as a software engineering intern. I worked with two other white men the same age as myself, and I noticed that a lot of the time they would seek out each other’s advice but not mine. This was okay with me, I am not always the loudest and wouldn’t push to contribute, I just assumed they were both more outspoken. Sometimes I would chip in if I thought I knew the solution, although they never went with it. This was okay with me too; there’s a lot of different ways to solve a problem in programming, and as long as the code worked that is what is important.
I didn’t take it for more than face value until one day one of the other interns was having a problem with the program where he used a portion of my code. I wrote this code 100% myself, and solved the same issue he was having currently a few weeks beforehand. I mentioned to him what it was, but the two other interns basically annoyed me. I explained to them again what the issue was, and they told me that wasn’t it. It took me telling them three times before they even actively listened to me, and then I had to explain what was going on all over again. By the end it was furious, felt so disrespected and realized the whole time I was working there that they did not value my opinion as much as they would had I been male. I don’t think they even recognized it themselves, and I don’t think it was intentional.
They were unconsciously participating in in-group favoritism, where members of someone’s own group are given preferential treatment (Hamel, 2021). As a woman in stem, I have always had to work with people who don’t match with my personal identity. People with different gender identities, religions, races and ethnicities, and more. I’ve learned to focus on what we do have in common- whether a common goal, shared knowledge, even a silly opinion. It helps build connections and is constructive. But for people who have not had much interactions with people who they don’t identify with, in this case women in a professional setting, they will only focus on the differences, and it can be incredibly destructive.
References
Hamel, R. (2021). Lesson 13: Leadership and Diversity