As this class has progressed, I have been thinking of various times I’ve had to act as leader. I’ve also thought of people who have made an impact on me. Much of my thoughts did not have names until certain lessons made me see some experiences differently. For example, before this semester, if one were to ask me what servant leadership was, I would have been completely wrong. The word “servant” painted a negative picture in my mind. What I learned, is that I have been a product of servant leadership which really shaped how I initially acted in a leadership role. When I was stationed in Germany, I had a direct supervisor. I had a shift boss and an overall flight chief (middle management type level). But I also had a trainer who took on a leadership role. This trainer, named Keith, exhibited many qualities from servant leadership which shaped the way I initially acted in leadership roles.
“Servant leaders place the good of followers over their own self-interests and emphasize follower development. They demonstrate strong moral behavior towards followers, the organization, and other stakeholders” (Northouse, 2013, p. 220). Servant leaders develop followers into leaders in order to get the work done and focus on other things. Keith demonstrated this every night on shift. I was treated as an equal and partner in work…not as the usual trainee in the jobs. Instead of being forced to hold flashlights, read technical orders, and hand off tools (which was the norm at the time for trainees), I was looked at to do most of the work and have an input on repairs. Often times Keith would stay late with me to work on something I needed training on. It’s because of him that I developed a strong attachment to our shift and out unit.
According to Northouse (2013) there are ten characteristics of a servant leader. Instead of going into all ten, I chose the top 3 that reminded me of the interaction I had with Keith. The first characteristic is listening. Servant leaders listen first. By doing so, they acknowledge and validate what the followers say. The next characteristic is empathy. Empathy refers to seeing something from other’s point of view. Servant leaders demonstrate this to show that they understand what the follower is going through. Lastly, servant leaders develop a community. Leaders develop a sense of community to allow followers to feel as if they are a part of something bigger than themselves; to give them a sense of identity while still being able to individually express themselves.
Keith embodied these characteristics. First was listening. In both situations where I excelled and during times when I made a mistake, Keith would always listen to what happened first. He wanted to get my view on what happened and validate what I was thinking. Next was empathy. Keith always said that he never forgot his time in my shoes. Whenever I felt that things were rough, he told me a story about how he dealt with it. He then would also see how my situation might be different so he can help me directly. Lastly, Keith helped build a community. Most nights he would invite the shift to eat together at the dining facility on base for the midnight meal. This meal would allow us all to feel like we were a part of the unit rather than a worker who happens to be in the unit. During these meals we would socialize, eat, and just enjoy the company of the entire shift.
Most of my life, I did not consider Keith to be a servant leader. I just considered him to be doing the morally right thing. It was only after reviewing the lesson that I saw how much faith in put in his followers, I saw the characteristics he exhibited, and I saw how he shaped us that I realized Keith was the perfect example for servant leadership.
References
Heroic Journey. (2014). [image]. Retrieved on April 14, 2014 from http://www.heroicjourney.com/graphics/page_graphics/servant_leader_traits.GIF
Northouse, P. (2013). Leadership: Theory and Practice. (6th Ed.). Thousand Oaks: Sage Publishing.