Northouse (2021) describes authentic leadership as “leadership that is transparent, morally grounded, and responsive to people’s needs and values” (p. 221). However, there is not one true definition of authentic leadership as it can be defined through an intrapersonal perspective, interpersonal process, and a developmental perspective (Northouse, 2021). In my personal experience as a female tennis coach, I have had many challenges in a mostly male dominant profession. To help navigate through this, I have a mentor, Mary, who leads myself and other female coaches through these challenges and help provide advice and strong leadership skills to help us succeed. Mary, to me, is a true authentic leader. Northouse (2021) outlines four components of authentic leadership: self-awareness, internalized moral perspective, balanced processing, and relational transparency (p. 227).
Self-awareness is about understanding one’s self, which can be strengths, weaknesses, emotions, identity, and this can reflect positively on their followers (Northouse, 2021). Mary’s experience in this business brought her through many ups and downs and challenging situations. She describes her weaknesses when handling these challenging situations, dealing with things too personally, too emotional of a response. In order to help us succeed, she is open and honest about herself and does not want us to make the same mistakes. This vulnerability is helpful and motivates me to do better and be better.
Northouse (2021) explains internalized moral perspective as a “self-regulatory process whereby individuals use their internal moral standards and values to guide their behavior rather than allow outside pressures to control them” (p. 227). Mary provided examples as to how her superiors would dismiss her ideas, even dismiss her and interrupting her when she was trying to lead while instructing lessons which was truly demoralizing to her. This constant pressure made her feel unable to do her job and deflated her motivation to continue. This raw honesty resonated with me, as I have felt the same many times. However, looking at her now and what she has accomplished, it is enough motivation for me to push forward under her mentorship.
Balanced processing is mostly about taking viewpoints from those who oppose you, analyzing objectively their opinions, and remaining unbiased before making a decision (Northouse, 2021). I am guilty of always thinking the worst and being sometimes too emotional in decision making and reacting. Mary’s mentorship has helped me understand that in this industry it will be a consistent battle to change views of female leaders in this sport, however progress has been made. So to help combat this, she has allowed myself and her other followers to feel as though we are pioneers who will pave the way for future female leaders in our sport.
Northouse (2021) describes relational transparency when “individuals share their core feelings, motives, and inclinations with others in an appropriate manner” (p. 229). Mary’s authentic leadership truly shines through her relational transparency. I have never had a mentor who leads with brutal honesty about themselves, their experiences, and even the mistakes that they have made in order to learn from them. I never feel mislead regarding her motivation to help myself and her followers try and navigate through this profession. In fact, Mary’s feelings and past negative experiences motivate me to improve so it won’t happen again to another female in the industry.
Overall, Mary’s authentic leadership has guided me through good times and bad in my career. Not only has her guidance helped me professionally, but it has helped me in my personal life as well. Her morals and transparency are inspiring and I hope to one day be of guidance to another.
Referenes:
Northouse, P.G. (2021). Leadership: Theory & Practice (9th e.d.). SAGE Publishing.