As mentioned in Northouse’s Leadership textbook, servant leadership originated in the writings of Greenleaf, who states that the main goal of servant leadership is “to create healthy organizations that nurture individual growth, strengthen organizational performance, and, in the end, produce a positive impact on society (Northouse, 2019).” A group of people who emulate this description are mothers.
Mothers epitomize this kind of leadership, as early as pregnancy. They offer their bodies to nurture and fulfill all of the needs of the child, from ailment to shelter. For example, some mothers follow strict diets during their pregnancy, create birth plans or attend birthing classes to learn more about this process, and even prepare their child’s nurseries before they are born. Following birth, they provide the most exemplary care necessary to shape a future member of society. For example, mothers provide the best education they can for their children, encourage their children’s hobbies and extracurriculars, and provide them with life skills that they use beyond childhood and into their adult lives.
This aligns with Greenleaf’s conceptualization of servant leadership, as he hypothesizes, “when followers receive caring and empowerment from ethical leaders, they, in turn, will likely begin treating others in this way. Servant leadership would produce a ripple effect in which servant leaders create more servant leaders.” When mothers serve their children and teach them attitudes such as kindness, compassion, and respect, they, in turn, are more likely to share these attitudes with others as they enter adulthood. We can see this by remembering lessons that our mothers or guardians have taught us, and how we find ourselves applying these lessons to our everyday encounters. If our mother taught us to be respectful while in another person’s home, for example, we would always use this life skill whenever we are in that situation.
While most other theories of leadership focus on influence as a method of the leadership process, servant leadership instead values sharing as means of being a leader. For example, Northouse argues that with servant leadership, “leaders should not dominate, direct, or control; rather, leaders should share control and influence. To give up control rather than seek control is the goal of servant leadership.” Some mothers use this method when parenting. They will often encourage and support their child, without directly expecting to control their child or dominate.
Through Northouse’s description of Greenleaf’s theory of servant leadership, we can see how mothers are exemplary candidates for leaders that live to serve others, their children or otherwise, without expecting anything in return and through their drive to lead and provide for their “followers,” or children in this case.
Reference
Northouse, P.G. (2019). Leadership: Theory and Practice. Thousand Oaks: Sage Publications.