How do you become an effective leader? Are you born with the necessary tools required to be a good leader or are the tools needed simply learned? There are two existing approaches to leadership that examine both notions–the trait approach and the skills approach. Both provide good arguments for being an effective leader, but is one better than the other in explaining such effectiveness?
The trait approach essentially states that traits necessary to being a leader are innate; either you’re born with it or you aren’t. There is no middle ground. The skills approach asserts that skills for being an effective leader can be learned, developed, and mastered. A person doesn’t have to be born a certain way to be a good leader; they can simply learn what it means to be a leader and hone their skills to be such. Personally, I think it actually requires a little bit of both–inborn traits and those learned–to be a successful, effective leader.
In my position, I am both a manager and a leader. While many people use these terms interchangeably, I believe there can be a difference. Managers are typically appointed or hired into their position by other management staff; leaders can be made up of anyone on the team–from the lowest intern to the CEO. Leaders, while oftentimes managers, aren’t always in positions to make managerial decisions. Instead, they set the example and in turn, other employees want to follow them.
I have worked very hard at becoming a good leader and manager. When I started in my job as a project manager, I faced an uphill battle. I am a woman working in a “good old boys” club. I am the only female, the youngest, and the newest project manager (although I have been in my current position for almost two years). While I like to tell myself that being a woman has no bearing on my job or my ability, I work in a male-dominated workforce and most of them believe my gender has everything to do with my abilities. In many of my coworkers’ eyes, I am somehow less skilled and less competent than they are. I actually find this quite humorous considering my projects brought in more revenue last year for the West Desert Testing Center on Dugway than three of the other project managers combined. I believe the reason for this is because I have proven to be an effective manager and leader.
Many of the skills I use in my everyday life have been learned. By nature, I am very domineering; I tend to take over and lead conversations. To become a successful leader, I had to learn how to truly listen to others . . . and this was no easy feat. It took me years to develop this skill. Growing up and even into adulthood, when I made up my mind, there was no changing it. When I was placed into my first management position at the age of 17, no one could tell me anything–I knew it all and it was my way or the highway. Now, at 33, I have learned that to be an effective leader and a leader that others will respect, it is necessary to be open-minded to ideas, concepts, and opinions that aren’t mine.
I always tell my crew that I have an open door policy and I actually mean it. When my guys disagree with a plan or schedule I have laid out, I listen to them and change it accordingly; after all, they are the ones who do most of the work. Listening to others and their ideas is not always easy for me to do even now, especially when I have it in my mind I want something done a certain way. However, I have learned to be flexible over the years and this has helped me tremendously. I find that when you are open to listening to others, they are more open to listening to you. It is definitely a two-way street.
By nature, I am also self-motivated. In being such, it makes me wonder if this is a “skill” that can be learned or if this is an inborn “trait.” I work with many types of people and find that those who are self-starters are more effective workers. Is this the case for leaders, as well? While I believe certain behaviors can be learned, I do think certain traits are innate and cannot be taught or learned. Self-motivation is an internal drive that I think people are born with. Some people have it; some people don’t. I don’t necessarily think those who don’t have it are worse workers than those who do; I simply believe that those who do have it are more effective.
For example, Danny and Gerald are a father/son duo who have worked for me for over a year. Danny is my field lead and is perhaps one of the hardest working guys in the company. Gerald, on the other hand, lacks any sort of internal drive and does only what he is told. He never goes beyond that and is perfectly content with this. I know it drives Danny crazy that his son is this way because he is completely opposite. Danny motivates himself and his crew and literally works from the beginning of work until the bell sounds at the end. Gerald will do only what he is asked to do and will then stand around or play on his phone. Is one more effective than the other? Of course. Gerald works very hard when he is tasked to do something; Danny works very hard all day long. Is one a better worker than the other in terms of hard work? Not necessarily. Is one a more effective worker because of his constant internal drive to work hard? Definitely.
Overall, I believe a leader must have certain learned skills and inborn traits to be a good leader. One isn’t necessarily more important than the other, but I think a combination of both is needed to be the best kind of leader.