Monthly Archives: February 2014

Le Mont Saint Michel

If I were to ask you about the attractions you know about in France, I bet you could at least name a few in Paris: The Eiffel Tower, le Louvre, l’Arc de Triomphe, les Champs-Elysées, maybe even Montmartre and le Moulin Rouge? Could you name any outside of Paris?

Le Mont Saint Michel is probably the number one attraction outside of Paris that people recognize. In fact, it’s one of the most visited sites in the world. That’s not too hard since France is the country that is most visited in the entire world (the United States is number 2).

In October of my year abroad, my Rotary district in France (districts envelop different areas of the country, and in my district there were about 22 exchange students) planned a trip for us students to travel up North to visit the Mont Saint Michel. About 5 or 6 other districts were planning to do the same, so we were all really excited to meet with tons of other students.

We set out on a Friday from Bourges (the town in which I was living) to Normandy, the uppermost area of France. We met with the rest of our exchange students at the beach, and ate sandwiches and played in the chilly water. Later, we went on a tour at a WWII museum which was right next to the artificial port that was created for the American soldiers to land on and invade Normandy. Not far from that, there’s an American cemetery which we visited. There, we met an American soldier who had actually fought in Normandy, and tears were in his eyes as he helped fold the American flag.

American cemetery in Normandy

American cemetery in Normandy

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Holding up the flag with my fellow American exchangers in my district at the cemetery.

After this emotional experience, we hopped back into our vans and drove an hour to our hotel which was right outside the Mont Saint Michel.

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A little bit of history: Le Mont Saint Michel is an island commune just a kilometer away from mainland France. In medieval times, it was used as a fortification because it could only be accessed during low tide. When enemies tried to reach it during high tide, they would drown.

Currently, the commune has a population of 42 people!! Wouldn’t it be cool to live there..? No? Just me then. The French government is also trying to figure out a solution to the island’s main problem: it’s sinking into the surrounding soil and water!

For some reason the Rotarians made all of us 200 exchange students walk around the island in the ice cold water for about 3 hours. We didn’t mind though, it was the perfect opportunity to get to know the rest of the students and take pictures with out countries’ flags.

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Treacherous French (quick) sand

On the island-- these houses date back to medieval times

On the island– these houses date back to medieval times

Looking down at the village and surrounding water.

Looking down at the village and surrounding water.

Later that night, all the students and Rotarians piled into one room to eat dinner, and once we finished our meals, the Rotarians had us go to the front of the room in groups and sing our country’s national anthem. This took roughly 2 hours to get through everyone’s anthem, but it was fun to hear the students sing in different languages. After that it was dance party time.

I still think of this weekend as one of the best weekends during my exchange. I got to see a beautiful place that I normally would never have gone to because it was too far away from my city, and I got to meet so many different people from around the world, people whom I still follow on Facebook to check out what they’re up to. But mostly, I became much closer with the exchange students in my district, especially these 4 girls, with whom I became super close with during the rest of the year. My exchange wouldn’t have been half as great as it was without the support and friendship of these girls! As much as I love my French friends I made at school, it’s the exchange students who really understood me and got to know me better. And I miss ’em to death!

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Lydia from Tacoma, Washington; Victoria from Toronto, Canada; Camila from Mexico City, Mexico

 

Jo from Perth, Australia

Jo from Perth, Australia

 

The Oppressed Majority

Prowling around for a good feminist topic to blog about, I came across a short French film,  Majorité Opprimée (Oppressed Majority), that is really giving me a lot to think about, and a lot to write about. Watch the 11-minute film here:

I’m going to break down the scenes one on one.

First of all, we can see that the director is a woman, Eleonore Pourriat. I think this is especially important because it gives the movie more credibility. Another thing to point out is the short description of the film: “On what seems to be just another ordinary day, a man is exposed to sexism and sexual violence in a society ruled by women…” This little description caught my attention because I never thought about what it would be like if the roles between men and women were swapped so dramatically.

In the first scene we’re introduced to the main character, a 30-ish-year-old slightly out of shape man who’s taking his child off to daycare. A woman neighbor stops to talk to him about a recent building meeting, addressing him as “my dear”. They chatter for awhile, and then as the woman is leaving she chuckles, “Oh I’m saying this to you? I should really be talking to your wife…” The man pauses for a second, but doesn’t really take offense by it. In fact, this line is so subtle that in real life, in our male-driven world, this remark probably wouldn’t register as misogynistic. But in reality, it is; why wouldn’t the male be as informed as the female on these matters? Why is one more worth talking to than the other?

The man sets on his way and is nearly knocked over by a topless female runner. Only the French are shamelessly not boob-a-phobics and I love ’em for it.

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Notice this subtle comment as well? She’s only remarking on his looks. This happens over and over in a woman’s lifetime that she starts to base her self worth on her beauty.

Dropping his child off at work, he notices the nanny, who’s a man, has started wearing a hijab, and he asks if he feels trapped by his wife. The nanny replies no, that it’s the law and that he’s protected by God that way. It’s possible that the nanny is telling the truth, that he feels more comfortable wearing the head scarf, but it’s also a possibility that he’s changed himself to please his wife. Our main guy is concerned about this, because this is a real issue for men (our women) in everyday life. I’m not arguing about the hijab itself; as a Westerner, I see it as a misogynistic practice, but I wasn’t brought up in that culture. I’m arguing about the fact that women often feel like they have to change the way they look to please their significant other or the males in their life.

Leaving the nanny, our guy hops on his bike. On the way he’s cat-called by a homeless woman who offers to give him a blowjob. The man ignores her at first, but when she yells at him to give her money and he refuses, she blows up at him, insulting his looks. He stays silent until the light turns green and he rides away. His silence is really disturbing; it’s weird to see a woman insult a man and have the man be silent, subservient.

Riding off, the man makes it to outside his office building and parks his bike. Four young girls are standing in the road, one of them relieving herself in the alleyway. The girls start to heckle the man, and finally, he gets fed up and asks if there’s a problem.

Our guy finally sticks up for himself, but when he calls them bitches, they get angry and react violently. In the alleyway, with a knife to his throat, the girls tear open his shirt, play with his nipples, and unzip his pants. This scene gave me chills; it’s so strange to watch women violently dominate a man in this way. As a woman, scenarios like this frighten me enough so that I am afraid to walk alone in the dark. I feel pretty safe in State College, but the idea of being taken advantage of is so scary to me that I don’t like to take risks. I can’t possibly imagine a world in which the roles would be switched, that men would fear me and my girl friends at night, and so I think that’s why this scene was so poignant to me.

The film skips to the man at the police station, as a woman officer dryly recounts his story. After she condescendingly asks for a cup of coffee from her young male assistant, she says, “It’s crazy isn’t it? In broad daylight, with no witnesses…” Our man asks what she’s trying to get at, and she replies,

Her icy gaze is what gets me most; she has absolutely no sympathy for what he went through, and what’s more, she questions if this scene ever took place.

When his wife meets him at the police station, she briefly explains that she couldn’t come earlier since she had a meeting. “I think I really knocked ’em dead” she says proudly, and the man says “I’m so happy for you”. That really ticked me off.

Walking out of the hospital, the woman makes no effort to try and comfort the man who can barely stand on his feet. She looks so uncomfortable, and clearly doesn’t know what to do. Then, he breaks down.

One of the first things she replies is:

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When he says he dresses as he wants, she harshly replies, “Don’t complain then!”

This is the popular argument of the ignorant, that women are asking for it when they wear tight or suggestive clothing. Yet, if we wear baggy clothing, we’re accused of being uptight, boring virgins. It’s the kind of double standard that makes me crazy.

She walks away, and as the camera follows her down the long, dark road, male voices start to insult her. She looks afraid as she walks alone; in a matter of seconds, the roles are switched back to normal. I applaud the director, Pourriat, for this exceptional short film that brings attention to one of our biggest issues as a society, objectification and violence against women. I especially want to know how men react to this film, so share your thoughts.

 

 

Frozen: Feminist and Fun

Ladies and gents, the newest Disney phenomenon has swept the nation; yes, you guessed it (by the title I hope?), this post is going to be all about how Disney’s Frozen can be considered a feminist film.

For those of you who haven’t yet seen the film, here’s a short synopsis. (For those who have, skip down to the astericks***.) Two sisters, Elsa and Anna, are princesses in a snowy setting (probably in some Nordic country). Elsa, the older sister, was born with the power of magically producing snow and ice forms through her hands. She and Anna love playing with the snow, until one day Anna gets hurt. From then on, their parents don’t allow Elsa to use her magic, but it’s difficult for her to keep it in. They also separate the two sisters, and refuse for them to leave the house. One day their parents are killed at sea, so 3 years later, Elsa will be crowned queen of the land.

On her coronation day, many people from distant lands arrive to celebrate the new queen. One of these foreigners is Hans, with whom Anna falls desperately in love with right away. He proposes to her, and she says yes immediately. After the coronation, Elsa loses control of her powers, and the entire town, including Anna, learns of her secret. Embarrassed and scared, she flees the castle, and Anna vows to go after her, putting Hans in charge while she’s away. On the way she comes across Kristoff, a mountain man of a guy with a cool moose companion, who at first refuses to help Anna, but later she changes his mind.

Who doesn't love a Yeti companion?

Who doesn’t love a Yeti companion?

Kristoff and Anna eventually make it to Elsa’s North Castle, a fortress she made out of ice, and they find Elsa perfectly happy being alone since she can be herself. But when Anna tells Elsa she has caused an eternal winter, Elsa grows scared again, and accidently strikes Anna in the heart with her snow powers. Kristoff takes her to some cool little trolls who say only an act of true love can break that ice. Kristoff rushes Anna back to Hans, but Hans laughs in her face and says he never loved her, he just wanted to take the kingdom from Anna. Meanwhile, Elsa is captured, brought to jail, and then escapes. Anna is left to die, before Olaf, her trusty snowman she met along the way, finds her and suggests they go find Kristoff. At the climax, Hans finds Elsa wandering the fjord in a blizzard, and gets ready to strike her with a dagger. Anna, nearly frozen to death, staggers toward them and steps in front Elsa. She turns completely to ice and shatters Hans’ blade. Elsa, consumed with grief, breaks down and starts hugging her frozen sister, when suddenly, Anna’s ice melts and she’s normal again! By saving her sister, an act of true love, Anna broke her own spell.

Elsa realizes love can break the eternal winter, so she warms the land and everything is back to normal.

The sisters' kingdom (thawed)

The sisters’ kingdom (thawed)

Hans is taken back to his own land, Kristoff kisses Anna for replacing his broken sled for a new one and the sisters rule the kingdom happily together.

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A pretty long summary, but I wanted to hit some of the more important parts that I’m going to analyze. In historical Disney films, Sleeping Beauty, Snow White, Cinderella, and even Tangled, it’s the man who ends up saving the downtrodden princess. I like Frozen because it completely turns this idea upside-down. At first, you think that it’s going to be just another Disney film; Hans and Anna fall madly in love the very first day they meet each other, and you find yourself shaking your fist at Disney, no! not another one of these unrealistic themes! At the same time, Elsa is told by her parents to keep her powers to herself, to hide her true personality. This theme can be seen even in real life, when girls are criticized for too strongly showing a certain characteristic, such as their sexuality, and are encouraged to hide it. Once Elsa is alone and is able to LET IT GO (the starring musical number in the film), she feels freer and happier. I like that Disney wanted to show that it’s not healthy to keep emotions inside yourself, and that little girls and boys alike should express themselves because it feels better to do so.

Moreover, the ending message really hits home. Instead of Hans turning out to be some great prince who rescues Anna, he betrays her, and it’s Anna who saves herself in the end. The tight sisterly bond between Anna and Elsa causes Elsa to figure out how to fix the eternal winter. The two sisters are happy to be reunited again, and they find a balance between allowing Elsa to use her powers and keeping harmony in the palace. It’s the sisters who figure out the solution, not some prince who sweeps in and saves everyone. Can anybody say GIRL POWER? Plus, having an older sister myself, I can relate to the film. Sometimes you fight with your sister, and sometimes you save your parents’ kingdom with her. Go us.

All the while, the film is fun to watch. Girls and guys of all ages can enjoy the cute musical numbers with Olaf the snowman (who steals the show btw), not at the expense of women or some other “dumbly-casted” minority (see characters such as Lightning McQueen in Cars or the Seven Dwarves in Snow White).

As for the sisters’ appearances go, Disney could have further pushed the message that individuality is an okay thing by possibly creating a curvier Elsa or Anna. The girls are still tied up in this rigid, impossibly skinny, model, and I would’ve liked to see a change in that. Like in Tangled, the princesses still have enormous eyes, small noses, beautiful locks that frame their pointy faces. I hate how Elsa, Anna, and Tangled’s Rapunzel all look like twins whereas the men in the movies, Hans, Kristoff, and Tangled’s Eugene are all extremely varied. If the importance of individuality is Disney’s intended message, the creators should have varied the girls’ looks and sizes a bit more.

Long lost sister?

Demeaning portrait of the perfect woman, or just long lost sister?

All in all, however, Frozen gets the Miranda Holmes feminist seal of approval.

Language Fails

Learning a foreign language and getting the chance to practice it in a foreign country is one of the hardest but most rewarding experiences. Even though I had about 5 years of high school French under my belt, I was nowhere near fluent by the time I stepped foot in France. Inevitably, I made a lot of mistakes while in France, and continue to make mistakes in the French classes I’m taking at PSU. Yet, some of my funniest memories from France are the times I screwed up a word or a phrase. Here are some of the funniest mistakes I remember making during my year, as well as some stories my exchange friends have told me. Be warned: these jokes are a lot more funny in French, but I’ll try and translate as best I can!

Echec numéro 1 (“Fail Number 1”): After 9 hours on an airplane, and after a 3 hour car ride, I arrived at my first host parents’ house. Exhausted and confused, I tried to muddle my way through the French I knew, introducing myself to my host mom and brothers. One of the first things my host mom, Sylvie, showed me was the coat and shoes closet. I put my shoes on the rack, and she asked me if I wanted to wear slippers (most French people do in the house), but I didn’t understand. She pointed to the slippers and I realized what she was asking me.

“Oh!” I said. “Non, je peux aller les pieds à poil.”

Some back story: I had been reading up on some slang words because I knew that my French teacher had never taught them in class. One of the words I came across in my book was à poil which I had understood as naked. What I wanted to reply to her was this: “No I can go barefoot”, but the real way to say “bare foot” is “les pieds nus”. Wordreference.com gives a good translation for à poil:

Basically I ended up saying “stark naked feet” (it also has a sexual connotation). My host mom cracked up about that one. I know, a lot of explanation for a joke (told you it’d be funnier in French..) but maybe you’ll find the next one better.

Also can we talk about the expression “in your birthday suit”? Didn’t know that was a thing but I’m really excited about it.

Echec numéro 2: At school, my friends would always reference going to the lunch line. One day, I wanted to suggest that we get into the lunch line early because it always took so long. The word for lunch line is: la queue de la cafét, and since the word is “queue”, I thought it was pronounced the English way, like the letter Q (it’s actually pronounced kuh in French). When I said queue, it ended up sounding like the French word for ass, being cul. They’re very similar, okay? My friends got a kick out of that one.

Echec numéro 3: (This fail actually occurred to my friend.) French teenagers love their slang. (There’s even a made-up teen language called le verlan in which they invert their words like merci (“thank you “) which becomes cimer and femme (“woman”) which becomes meufSupposedly it was first created so that adults wouldn’t know what they were talking about, but I think they’ve caught on!) Anyway, my Mexican friend Camila had class with another student whom she would talk with, and this guy always ended his sentences with the word “nickel”. This word means great, or awesome, but she didn’t know it at the time. So she went home to her host sister and asked what the word meant, except she pronounced the word like “niquer”. Her host sister, outraged by Camila’s disgusting student, told her to never talk to him again. Cam asked why, and her host sister replied that the word meant the F word. Later, Cam understood that he wasn’t trying to seduce her, he was simply expressing his positivity!

Hopefully you guys found it funny… At least my French host parents and friends get a kick out of those stories!

Here’s a link to common French mistakes English speaks make (I even learned something new!): http://www.voulezvouloz.com/2013/10/9-common-french-language-errors-english-speakers-make/

Anyone else's middle school teachers always have cheesy posters like this? Very inspirational.

Anyone else’s middle school teachers always have cheesy posters like this? Very inspirational.