As complicated as girls are, we’re not that difficult to win over. However, many guys still seem to think it’s some ridiculously arbitrary process with no rhyme or reason. So guys, I’ll help you out. Here’s your guide for how to get a girl.
1. Be attractive:
It’s harsh to say, but let’s be real, it’s important to you and it’s important to us. The thing that people don’t seem to realize is that everyone has a different type. So step one is to find out if you’re their type, and if not, maybe try someone else. Now, the attractiveness factor is of varying levels of importance depending on who you talk to, so I’m not saying it’s impossible to win her over if you’re not her type… but it is more difficult.
2. Take interest:
It seems like a bit of a stupid thing to say, but it is important. You obviously have to take interest in a person, but I think guys tend to overlook the small things. And I’ll let you in on a little secret: the small things are the most important. It’s remembering to ask how the exam she was stressing about went or remembering her dog’s name or even just asking how her day went. Just remember the details, that’s all you need. Imagine the girl you’re interested in is one of your favorite sports players. Know her as well as you know your fantasy football team.
3. Hang out:
From what I’ve noticed, guys seem to put too much of an emphasis on going out instead of hanging out. However, going out isn’t what matters to girls. In fact, most girls would prefer to sit at home and watch a movie or get coffee than some super official date (although those do need to happen every once in a while). Going out means pressure. It means eyes can be on you and there’s the possibility of seeing people you know. It can be stressful, and most girls are more concerned with how they look or come across than the person they’re with. So, my best advice would be to ditch the date. It’s more relaxed, more fun, and it saves you some money.
No one likes copious amounts of affection in a public setting. It’s gross, get a room people. However, girls do like PDA in small doses. So hug her, hold her hand, something small. Especially now as it gets colder. *Secret #2: When a girl says how cold she is walking down the street, she’s probably encouraging you to put your arm around her. It’s not true 100% of the time, but I’d say about 95% of the time it is.*
Basically that’s it. Girls aren’t exactly the most complicated beings in the world. Four steps and she’s practically yours. You just gotta make it official.. AND DO THAT. It’s important. No one likes having to talk to their friends and be like “well we’ve hung out a couple times… but we’re not really dating per say…. I don’t really know what’s going on actually.” So define your relationship. Then BAM. You’re set. Magic.