Sometimes you really should get a second opinion. You think about it with medical issues. One doctor says you are going to die of random disease X, so you seek a different doctor who may offer you different news. But you should really think about it in terms of other things that cost a lot of money. Car repairs immediately come to mind.
There have been a couple of times that I took my old Subaru Forester to a local repair shop and was stunned by the quotes. When I called my father in tears, wondering how in the world I would pay for $1000 in repairs on my 2004 Subie, he advised me to get a second opinion. My dad is a wise man. I made an appointment at one of the places that he takes his car. It was a two hour drive, but I got to spend some time with my parents so I didn’t mind. In the end, I got that repair done for half of what I was quoted in State College. That second opinion saved me $500. Some of the work recommended at the State College garage wasn’t even deemed necessary. The work that was required was done at a much less expensive price. I felt like I won the lottery.
Owning a car is definitely a double edged sword. If you don’t have one, you are slave to the bus schedule. If you have a new car, you likely have to deal with monthly car payments. If you have an old car, you are likely waiting for the other shoe to drop with the next major repair. Any path you choose will at some point seem like the wrong one. But never be afraid to second guess the “experts.” It’s always ok to get a second opinion.