Growing up in the 2000s, I loved watching TLC shows. Whether it was 19 Kids and Counting, Say Yes to the Dress, or Kate Plus 8, I would spend a lot of my free time watching such shows. One show which my mom and I particularly liked watching was What Not to Wear. We found it particularly funny to make fun of some of the horrendous things that people wear, which was quite entertaining. Thinking back on the show however, I’ve come to realize that there is almost no way that this show would slide now, as it would probably be deemed insensitive.
To refresh my memory on the show, I watched season 6 episode 9, which came out in 2009. The episode followed a woman named Michelle, who was identified as having a “frumpy” style and an obsession with outrageously patterned scarves from the thrift store.
One thing that makes this show particularly degrading is that people are nominated by their friends and family to go on the show. This means that the people closest to an individual think that they have bad style to the extent that they need help. This may be a different story if the individual seeks help themselves, but the fact that its’ at someone else’s discretion seems somewhat hurtful.
Luckily, Michelle was up for the “adventure” as she called it, and was given a $5000 gift card to fund her new wardrobe, while her old one was critiqued and thrown out by the shows’ hosts Stacy London and Clinton Kelly.
Michelle spoke about how she used to have self-esteem issues, so she began to express herself and feel happier through the clothes she wore. By criticizing her outfits, the hosts are in a way telling her that her style that makes her feel good is not beautiful, and she should stop expressing herself in that way. Much of the clothes she had in her closet previously were from the thrift store for $1-5. This is typically seen as good in society as it’s reusing used clothes and saving money. However, she is told that she should spend more money on clothes. The hosts make the point that there isn’t a problem of spending a lot of money on clothes if they are stylish and will last a long time, but this still is not always suitable for everyones budget.
There are various rude and insensitive jokes made throughout the episode. For example when Clinton learns of Michelle’s job as a telemarketer, he says “I would ask to be transferred to someone else if I knew you were on the other end of the phone”. Michelle was also made fun of for never have been on a date, and when she reveals that her type is jocks the comment that “this isn’t really the look to attract a jock” was made. Despite the fact that this is outwardly rude, it also puts the point across to Michelle and viewers that what matters when looking for a spouse is someones looks as opposed to their personality. The hosts also encouraged Michelle to find things that flatter her body. This is fine but making the comment that “when you carry weight in your midsection” while pointing out Michelle’s stomach, is quite rude and inappropriate, and is quickly glazed over in the episode.
The producers do a good job at the end of the episode masking some of these inherent issues. Michelle says that she feels more confident in herself now and that she will still go to the thrift store, but will find things that suit her body type there. Despite this positive feedback at the end of the episode, the show still projects a shocking and inappropriate idea that people need to change the way they dress to conform to the standards of society in order to find mates or just be seen as conventionally attractive. This takes away from the idea that people should be liked for who they are on the inside rather than what they look like. This may have been able to slide in the 2000s, but a show like this would never be successful in modern day society because of the many people who encourage positive body image and loving yourself for you, without changing the way you look for others.