“Mommy!! I am a Reality Television STAR!!” – Child Reality Stars

While it can be very entertaining to watch young men and women who believe they are invincible and go up against the beast that is reality television, not all shows consist of the typical 18-24 year olds. Some shows look to participants who have even less of a filter than the arrogant college student. They look to children to be unpredictable, create humor, and become an American icon. Sometimes it is their innocence that can be the most entertaining part of the show. But, what are the impacts of putting a child on a reality television show? Arguably, some adults do not even know what they are getting themselves into when they decide to become a reality star. A child is in a very different situation because not only do they not know what they are getting themselves into, but they are also unable to give consent to the show. They are still under the control of their parent’s decisions. When thinking about the significance of reality television on young children, I immediately think about Jon and Kate plus 8. The show played on TLC and explored the life of young parents Jon and Kate who already had twins and were about to become the parents of sextuplets. Why is this the first show that comes to mind? Well the sextuplets made their reality television star debut evan before they were born. Even before they had taken their first breath, the world already knew they were coming and knew all of their names. As the show progressed and the marriage of Jon and Kate fell apart right in front of millions of people, the eight kids had to see it play out in person and then relive it as it continuously aired on television. The children are essentially being exploited at the hands of their parents and the opinions of those around them. Navigating the ups and downs of growing up is hard enough, but having the rest of the world know what goes on in your home as a child could lead to serious problems.

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Although to the average viewer it is hard to picture the life of a reality as the life someone actually lives, the children on these shows still do continue to go to school and live a semi-normal life just like every other kid is required to do in the United States. It does set these kids apart because not every child is portrayed the same way they are. This could lead to bullying and harassment at school. For more reasons than one – jealously, misunderstanding, judging, other kids can not fully comprehend what it is like to have your life aired on television. It creates a second world for the child stars, where their life is portrayed one way on television, and experienced a different way in their everyday life. Additionally, with two different worlds, comes two different levels of scrutiny. They get the immediate scrutiny of their peers at school and where they live, and they they get scrutiny from people they do not know and will never know. These people could live in another county, state, country, or continent. The show allows these people to feel as if they know the children on a personal level and share their personal thoughts. More often than not, this impact on the children is incredibly negative and could influence them for years to come.

 

Work Cited

Harris, Lew. “The Consequences of Children on Reality TV.” The Wrap. The Wrap News, 13 July 2009. Web. 10 Apr. 2016. <https://www.thewrap.com/consequences-children-reality-tv-4288/&gt;.

 

3 Comments on “Mommy!! I am a Reality Television STAR!!” – Child Reality Stars

  1. jts5577
    April 14, 2016 at 8:31 am (8 years ago)

    I agree with your position on children being exploited on reality TV shows. I do think they have a right to decide whether they want their childhood being documented for the mass public. Kids should not worry about how others will perceive them for doing a specific action and they lose a sense of privacy. This is one of the major problems I have with reality television, the consistent exploitation of children and families.

  2. skf5159
    April 14, 2016 at 8:29 am (8 years ago)

    When I first read your title, I immediately thought of Toddlers and Tiaras and the infamous Honey Boo Boo. As an avid viewer of both these shows, I’ve always found them entertaining, mostly because of the stupidity of the characters. However, I’ve never really thought about the emotional impact that fame can have on a young child. I mean, just look at what happened to Justin Bieber ! Anyway, thanks for shedding light on an important topic, and maybe we should open up the discussion for the allowance of such young kids into fame.

  3. snw5184
    April 14, 2016 at 8:29 am (8 years ago)

    Really glad that you touched on this aspect of reality TV shows. It is crazy to think that some of these children staring on reality TV shows are born into the life of ‘fame’ without a choice or real awareness of what is going on. I also think that your point about a lack of privacy is good to discuss. It is hard being a kid, period. It is harder being a kid where almost everything about you and your family is being watched by others that you know and do not know. The kids from John and Kate plus 8 actually grew up around where I come from, and their kids always had the attention on them, in sports, school, and really anywhere they went. When they were there, people would talk. They certainly did not have the normal life of children around them.

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