What do you remember from your childhood? Do you think your child will remember any experiences from being a toddler? These are questions that have crossed my mind as a parent. Will my child remember all the places we have lived or the places we have visited in her early years? Researching what exactly a child will remember, how they forget, and ways to influence childhood memories is important information to know as a parent.
Infantile Amnesia is a term used by psychologists that refers to memory loss in infancy and early childhood. The first few years of life has been proven to be an extremely important time period in one’s life. Early childhood contributes to personality, language skills, and social behaviors. Anecdotal evidence shows there are few to no memories that we can remember around 3 years of age. If you try to recall your earliest childhood memory, chances are they are not this early. Childhood memory recall tends to happen around 5 or 6 years of age. Emotion does play a role and children are over twice as likely to recall a memory when linked to a strong emotion, positive or negative.
There are several theories that help explain infantile amnesia. One theory presents that childhood memory loss is due to experiences not transformed into long term memories. The storage failure is because the neural circuitry of the brain is not fully functional at an early age. The other theory represents loss is due to a retrieval issue, meaning the memories exist but we are unable to retrieve them. This is because as we age, our perception changes, and therefore, retrieval cues are not presented. For example, building a tower of blocks as a child may be perceived as big as a small house. Looking at blocks as an adult, we know they are just a small toy. By not being able to look at something in the same way as a child, memory retrieval is difficult due to our perception.
According to Pediatrics for Parents, parents are able to help improve childhood memories. By talking to your children often about past events and allowing the child to thoroughly engage in the conversation is important. Providing additional information, using a two-way dialog, and discussing the past event are all extremely important in helping to retrieve childhood memories later in life. For example, I start telling a story from a past event to my soon-to-be 3-year-old from about 6 months ago about how she hid from me in a store. She will begin to add on to the story by telling me where she hid and starts to fully engage in the conversation about the past memory. She remembers certain details and I remember other details, and both details summed up together encourage childhood memories to be retained in the child’s brain. Culture proves that recall can make a difference. American culture recalls more childhood memories on average than China which results in earlier childhood memories. Showing a child pictures of past events also helps trigger and reinforce childhood memories.
In conclusion, childhood plays an important role in who we are as individuals. Either by storage failure or retrieval failure, we experience infantile amnesia and tend to forget all or most of infancy and childhood. By using different teaching and communication skills, we can help our children hold on to more childhood memories than the average person.
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