“Crying is for the weak.” “Stop crying you big baby.” “Stop crying, that’s for women.” When someone talks about the subject of crying this is normally what people say. They relate crying to being weak, but I wanted to challenge this misconception because crying can make you feel better sometimes. I want to show that a good cry every once in a while can actually help your body and yourself in many ways.
One of the health benefits is that is releases the toxins from your body. “Tears that are produced by stress help the body get rid of chemicals that raise cortisol, the stress hormone.” Tears can help you to feel immediately better and less stressed even after just a short crying session. A study shows that crying releases the toxins just as peeing and sweating releases the toxins.
Another good reason to let yourself to cry is that the tears allow us to see. The tears lubricate the eyeballs and the eyelids so it is easy to open and close. It is also makes sure that the mucus membrane does not dehydrate. Without the tears there will be no way that you
can continue to see.
Tears kill bacteria just like disinfectant wipes for your eyes! Any germs we pick up from outside sources are gotten out of our system through the tears. This does not mean you should just cry instead of washing your hands, but the bacteria that gets in your eyes can only be gotten out through one thing, tears.
As if there isn’t already enough reasons to just cry it out there are even more. Another one is it elevates your mood because lowering your manganese levels helps your body. Exposure to excess levels of manganese can cause damage to the brain, so it is better for the body to cry to make these levels go down. Another effect of high manganese levels is anxiety and stress. When stressed out over homework, an upcoming midterm, or making sure to get all of your blogs done before they are due, crying will help reduce your stress levels (but remember it won’t make the homework or blogs go away!).
Another reason to just cry is to build community. I know what you’re thinking, why am I going to cry in a public place? But when you end up not being able to hold it in anymore, people always come by to comfort you when you are crying. The level of intimacy exchanged between the comforter and the cryer is astounding. After this you will forever have a bond and know that that person will be there for you even when you are at one of your lowest points.
Even though it’s not everyday that something tragic happens, everyday life is still very overwhelming as it is. There are many things that go on through the course of the day that have an impact on your mood and sometimes the only way to release all of the feelings built up is through crying. The tears release the tension that would otherwise go straight to your cardiovascular system.
The next time you think about crying remember the benefits and just let it out. The next time you see someone about to cry don’t make fun of them being weak because they’re helping their body through doing this simple action.