Extra Credit Blog #3 – Empathy During COVID-19 Pandemic: a Panel Discussion

On Wednesday, April 29th, I attended a discussion regarding the psychological aspects of empathy, and how empathy can be translated into the current pandemic. The discussion was held by the Rock Ethics Institute and was hosted by Daryl Cameron who is a professor of Psychology here at Penn State.

There were four panelists/speakers: Paul Conway, Abigail Marsh, Michael Poulin, and David DeSteno. All of whom are professors of Psychology at Universities across the country.

Each speaker talked about their work and how it may apply to the COVID-19 Pandemic.

The first speaker was Paul Conway who specializes in sacrificial decision making. He explained sacrificial decision making as how people weigh decision that could hurt some people for a benefit or gain for more people. Put into today’s context, people (governments) had to make a decision and weigh the conflict between self-isolation (which leads to mental health and overall economic issues) and allowing people the freedom to take a risk and go outside. Self-isolation (which we are currently dealing with) will benefit the larger community but it has high costs which is something we are currently dealing with, and will be dealing with for some time after the virus has subsided. These moral dilemmas are what Mr. Conway concentrates on in his work. I found this very interesting especially since, as a business major, I may be forced with a moral dilemma that I will have to make a decision on. Learning the psychology behind this is extremely fascinating.

 

The second speaker was Abigail Marsh who researches “human altruism.” She explained that this is, essentially, the study of populations who are selfish vs. those that are empathetic. Psychologists learned that levels of empathy and compassion vary between people yet they don’t know how or why. They do know that alcheristic qualities are distinguished as the ability of someone to recognize another person’s fear. Empathetic people find happiness in other people’s happiness, so they act to ensure those around them are doing or feeling well. In relation to the current pandemic, psychologists have found that the average person is very altruistically motivated.

 

The third speaker was Michael Poulin who is interested in exactly what “empathy” is and how and why we use it. Researchers have not developed a single definition of empathy, however, Mr. Poulin believes empathy is a way that people connect to others whom they don’t even know. However, he notes that the desire to help or reach out to someone doesn’t always lead to action. This is because helping someone else typically comes at a cost (either financially or personally). He is interested to find how we as human beings navigate that tension between acting and weighing the costs. What is also very cool about his findings is that apparently asking yourself “how” you are going to achieve a goal will almost automatically allow for more success in achieving that goal. He wants to see how applying this knowledge could be used in pro-social goals, which I am very fascinated to learn too. In terms of the present situation, helping others means doing –at times– unpleasant things, such as wearing masks, staying separated, or risking your health. However, to get people to want to do this more, to keep up with these sacrifices, we need to explain to them “how” and “why” we are doing this because that will make people more inclined to listen.

 

The last speaker was David Desteno who studies the morals and emotions of humans. He explained how a lot of the success we have had as a species involves our brains and our interactions with others. He said that gratitude and compassion allows for us to sacrifice in the moment and wants to know why certain emotions allow us to do this. In terms of the pandemic, he wants to understand how our emotions have allowed for us to not engage in behaviors that give us pleasure; and, how we can control those behaviors to concentrate on the greater good.

 

The host, Mr. Cameron, also briefly shared what he is interested and what he is working on. He is curious about what degrees we can control and understand our empathetic response; and how capable we are to respond empathetically to current situations occurring. These are very, very interesting questions. This is something I have never even considered before but since hearing these questions, I have been thinking back to various situations I have been in, and my response to them.

 

A theme throughout everyone’s research seemed to be around how and why people make sacrifices in the short term and if we can understand these behaviors.

 

One question posed by the audience was how each panelist approaches “empathy” and how they would define it. After hearing what each person had to say, I crafted my own personal definition of empathy:

I believe empathy is recognizing the pain/struggle of another person, translating that pain to yourself, and wanting to help that other being.

 

Overall, I really enjoyed this discussion. It truly made me consider things I had never considered before.

 

Mr. Cameron was an excellent moderator. He looked for themes across everyone’s work and summarized them well. He also made sure everyone was heard. Lastly, he did a fantastic job engaging the audience and encouraging them to ask questions.

Extra Credit Blog #2 – Let’s Not Beat Around the Bush

On March 5th I attended the discussion “Let’s Not Beat Around the Bush: How can we Fight Stereotypes in Porn?” which was held in the Fraser St. Commons. 

The venue would prove to be much too small for the amount of people who came to the deliberation as the majority of the audience members had to stand due to the lack of chairs. Also, it became so hot in the room that we needed to prop open the door using a trashcan to get some fresh air. 

*Side Note: one thing I did notice about the deliberations, in general, was that many more people are able to attend discussions during the week rather than the weekends, myself included

The discussion itself was very interesting, as it wasn’t a subject that could be debated all that much. Instead of the issue being one with various sides, the group focused on the issue of stereotyping those who watch or participate in pornography, and how we can eliminate this stereotyping. 

When listening to the approaches, it seemed that weren’t surrounding one coherent issue. It seemed that lot of the deliberation was just talking about things related to porn such as the stereotypes about porn, and the hyper-sexualization of porn actresses (and women in general). While these are issues in our society, I did not understand how they related to stereotypes for pornography. Furthermore, they began to look further, and ask questions about things that were not related to their topic. For example, one of their approaches involved establishing a union for pornography stars. Once again, while this may be an interesting idea, it is not related to stereotypes in porn. 

One thing that I found a little disappointing was that in their physical issue brief, the section about hyper-sexualization of females included several images to provide examples of this. However, the examples contained images such as naked women covered by half-naked men, or women who look like they are having sex. I felt that by demonstrating the hyper-sexuality of women they were participating in it themselves through displaying these images. I believe that better examples could have included images of women wearing clothing or being posed in ways that attempts to sexualize them as opposed to having naked women. For example, I did a presentation in front of my high school during my senior year that discussed the sexual depictions of female superheroes in movies and comics. I think that I was able to get this message across without showing the same types of images they did. 

In addition, I didn’t think the moderators did the best job seeing both sides of a topic. For example, during their approach about education about pornography, they didn’t look at the negative sides of this approach. 

All that being said, I do think the moderators did a good job with the difficult topic they had. They did an excellent job with asking clarification questions and follow-up questions which is more difficult with larger groups. Also, the moderators were able to regroup and redirect back to the approach after the audience would start to get off topic. 

Extra Credit Blog: The Art of Swiping Right: A Discussion of Dating in the Digital Era

The deliberation took place on Wednesday, March 4th, and was held in Chambers 221. The room was very large which was actually very helpful because there was a HUGE group of people who came to the discussion. So much so that there wasn’t enough chairs for everyone. 

The deliberation focused on how we can make online dating websites or apps (such as Tinder and Match.com) safer. Approaches that I found the most interesting included more education and background checks. 

The education approach discussed teaching students how to be safe on online dating platforms in schools. It also brought up an alternative that it could be taught within the app through notifications, reminders, and things of the sort. The purpose of this approach would be to teach and remind people of the dangers of online dating, and how to do it in the safest way possible.

The background check approach suggested that dating apps incorporate a mandatory background check for all users to complete before they are allowed to begin using the service. The background checks would include a criminal record check, and verification that the person is who the say they are. The purpose of this approach would be to prevent anyone from creating fake profiles and therefore preventing people who use the applications to prey on unknowing victims. 

One person suggested a photo identification to go along with the security checks. They would require the person signing up to take an obscure photograph of themselves (what was discussed during the deliberation was a photo of you touching your ear with your pinkie) that they would not typically be able to find online. 

In my opinion, though this would make internet dating a lot safer, this approach is not feasible. It is a huge lack of privacy for you to be required to submit the information they would require, and it is unrealistic for the app developers to have to go through millions of peoples data to permit them to use their app. 

I actually thought the topics were interesting and I had opinions but the group was too big and it was difficult to participate. 

In addition, I don’t think they did the best job of controlling the pros vs cons. They just let the discussion go after they proposed their questions and let them go. Also, they didn’t do follow up questions or paraphrase or any other deliberation skills (though this may have been due to the size and time restrictions). 

Something that I liked about the deliberation was the variety of perspectives and suggestions the audience members brought. For example, someone compared the specific requirements people can select on the elite dating app to the babies with genetic enhancements. Yet another person countered this point by stating that though people are selective online, they are also going to be selective in real life as well. 

In conclusion, I think that this discussion was very successful, as there were  a lot of lively participants and the discussion was maintained throughout the entire time.