It is no secret that mental health has been talked about exponentially more recently than ever before, which is a very good thing. Many kids however do not get the mental health treatment that they need, up to 80%. Why are they not getting help? Well most times, they want someone to ask them what is wrong, and parents and teachers can often miss signs that something is wrong. Parents may believe it is ‘just a phase,’ while teachers may believe the student is simply not working hard or doesn’t care. Oftentimes, warning signs of mental health struggles show up in school: attendance could start to drop, grades slipping, and interactions among other students and teachers diminishing. Once again we have to ask the question of who’s responsibility does identifying mental health issues fall on: the parents, or teachers, or both?
“One in six U.S. youth aged 6-17 experience a mental health disorder each year, and half of all mental health conditions begin by age 14.” These conditions start extremely early on, often at the end of middle school and into high school. There are warning signs, but again these can be cast aside. Let’s look at the teacher’s side of the issue.
Teachers quite simply already have their hands full. Many do already have a mentor relationship with particular students, and this makes it difficult to have personal conversations with each and every kid they have. Teachers can often have a lack of resources in this area. The can talk to a child and identify a problem, but in reality most teachers have no training to do this and do not know the student as well as say their parents would. Should teachers even get involved then? But then its also important that most of the warning signs do happen at school and are fairly easy to find if someone is looking for them. I think teachers responsibility should be to contact the parents if something seems off, and if they feel comfortable enough quietly ask the student to stay after class and ask them if anything is wrong. I do not think it is the average teacher’s responsibility beyond this point however.
Schools do already have counselors that kids can go to for this, but a stigma around them do exist. Despite this, nearly the same amount of kids get help from school resources that get help from professionals outside of schools. Reducing the stigma around school counselors and getting help is definitely happening, but has a long way to go. Maybe a regular check in that is not about scheduling classes should be implemented.
Parents are probably the most obvious role that should take place in this. Parents know their children better than anyone else, and need to take drastic mood or behavior swings seriously, and regularly ask their child how they are doing in a calm and focused setting. Families should be the first to spot the problem, as long as they know what to look for.
This issue is not easy or simple, but with more awareness for both parents and teachers, many kids will be able to get proper treatment when they need it most.