In this post, I will detail my own personal method of balancing both my ancestral heritage and the culture in which I was born. My approach is centered around embracing the benefits of access to two opposite worlds to create a unique niche that incorporates both.
Something I have observed with other Asian Americans is that many of them tend to constantly stick to other Asian Americans, giving them the appearance of being cliquey and further distancing themselves from the majority of Americans. This tendency is comfortable and rewarding in its own ways, but it does not appeal to me. For me, I think it is important to take advantage of my position to break down stereotypes commonly associated with Asians. With my unique perspective, I see the potential for bringing change in people’s perspectives regarding a race that has been misunderstood or disregarded in American history.
I like to think of my philosophy as the W.E.B. DuBois in the DuBois and Booker T. Washington rivalry: I learn the ways of popular society, going by its rules to enact change in people’s perceptions of what being Asian American entails.
The foundation of my philosophy is a thorough understanding of American culture. The thing about finding a place as an Asian American in the United States is that I must be as familiar with American culture as the typical Caucasian American or even more so in order to bypass the initial preconceptions that my appearance tends to bring. This is the first step in making change in others’ perspectives. Deep understanding of the language and history as well as its modern state are they key aspects to understanding any culture. Developing such an understanding legitimizes me to the majority of Americans; it establishes me as one of them culturally.
Then, I developed a thorough understanding of Chinese culture as well. By practicing the language whenever I can and studying its history and traditions, I understand the essence of the culture that I come from and actively pursue it. The study of one culture in fact helps me better understand the other because I can compare the two. Knowing both intimately helps with developing cultural sensitivity and a more sophisticated worldview.
Next, I need to be aware of my position as an Asian American and the kind of special opportunities I have. For example, because I am not Caucasian, it is easier for me to bring up controversial or unpopular views without seeming clueless or insensitive to others. As a result, there is more of an opportunity for others to listen to a different viewpoint. This privilege allows me a sort of freedom of speech in a heated political climate that can be used not only to bring attention to an underrepresented ideas, but also to change prevalent stereotypes about Asian Americans. The key is to do so only when needed or when the situation is right, ideally naturally and within reasonable necessity.