In all honesty, I am terrible at dealing with change. I’m one of those people who would have a much easier time doing the same thing every day, despite the fact that doing so would drive me insane, just because it would mean less change to cope with. However, I really strive to be the exact opposite, so I try my best to force myself into new experiences.
This only occasionally leads to mental breakdowns.
I think I, to some degree, get this trait from my family. We always like to go on the same vacations and eat at the same restaurants. So, after our trip 5 years ago to Maui for Christmas, everyone else in my family was intent on returning to the same island and visiting the beautiful beaches there. I, however, had a different plan.
While I absolutely loved Maui, there isn’t much on the island other than beaches, and I wanted to go somewhere that had more to offer. On the other hand, the Big Island was known for much more than just its beaches. It had actual lava, the highest peak of Mauna Kea, and great hiking.
I can’t say I made my family change their vacation plans to accommodate my own, and I know they all loved the Big Island, too, but it took some pleading and me explaining how I wanted a “new experience” to get my mom to change her mind.
Once we actually were on the island, I had no idea where to hike, so I googled “Hikes in Hawaii,” and picked one that said it wouldn’t be too challenging but was apparently beautiful, to this place called Pololū Valley. The next morning, the five of us woke up early and piled into our rental jeep for the two hour drive to the northernmost tip of the island. On the car ride over, I could feel the annoyance radiating off of certain members of my family over the whole situation, bitter that they wouldn’t be spending the day at the beach and that this trip had cut into their sleep time.
Oops.
As we drove, we got to admire the crazy terrain of Hawaii. First, the volcanic rock, and then later the rain forest, passing through about 5 different climate zones on our trip. This was enough fun for my family. Eventually, we drove through a small town called Hawi, and had only about 15 minutes left on our journey. We continued along a winding road, passing by rundown houses and overgrown forest, until we turned the corner to the most beautiful place I’ve been in my entire life.
In front of us were beautiful cliffs and valleys, fading off into the distance in the fog. We pulled over, unaware that we were about 50 feet from the parking lot before the trail head, and stepped out of the car, trying to take it all in.
That hike was one of the most memorable I’ve ever been on. We hiked down the side of the valley onto a rocky beach which offered fantastic views of both the water and the island, and saw others hike up an unmaintained trail on the other side of the valley. Unfortunately, my family decided not to continue with the rest of the hike, but it’s my dream to someday return and find out what lies at the top of the adjacent cliff.