We have all done it. You can deny it, but I am sure at some point you have been guilty of this. You walk by a person you think you may recognize and you pretend to not see them, intensely look at the ground, or do something on your phone in order to avoid the possibility of an awkward encounter. In high school, this would happen to me quite often as I walked down one of the narrow hallways, and the only other person in the hallway was the girl that I knew in first grade then never spoke to again walking towards me. Do you say hi? Do you smile? Do you avoid eye contact altogether? You both know that you have seen one another, but neither of you speak a word.
You would think at such a large place such as the University Park campus, incidents like this would never occur. Wrong. It seems that you always tend to run into the same people on campus out of the thousands of strangers that you could possibly see. For me, it’s not that I don’t want to say hi to a person, it’s just that I may have met him or her once and fear the they won’t even remember us ever meeting. With so many different club meetings, classes, and events you meet new people in college every single day, and you never know when you are going to run into them again.
One of my new goals for the next semester is to be courageous and just give a simple “Hi!” or a smile to a person that I may recognize. What is the worst that could happen? They may not remember me, but oh well that’s only a minute out of my life that I may feel slightly embarrassed. I have realized that college is full of these “awkward” moments, and I should just embrace them rather than trying to avoid all uncomfortable situations. College is about stepping completely out of your comfort zone, and if I can’t even give a simple “hello” to an acquaintance I will never grow or change in the way that I believe I am capable of throughout these four years.