My family is the most important component of who I am today. My brother, Drew, and parents have helped guide me through life thus far. My family is interesting because we all have particular things that differentiate us, but we all share a lot of the same personality traits. When we do butt heads, it is because we are so similar. Regardless, we support each other through everything and are very open with one another.
The Army has been important to my family since my parents met as officers while stationed at Fort Dix. My mother retired right before she married my father, and my father did not retire until three years ago. Growing up as a military brat, I moved five times before fifth grade. I enjoyed moving because I got to make new friends everywhere I went, but the flip side of that was that I never had any childhood long friendships besides Drew. My brother was always with me and I could always count on him being by my side.
Growing up I was a tomboy because I wanted to be just like my big brother. Drew is still my rock and my confidant. I don’t know where I would be without him. We first got really close during my dad’s deployments, beginning when I was in third grade continuing until I was a freshman in high school. We banded together through moving and not having my father around. He also continues to have a large influence on my interests. Through following him to all of his volunteer events and watching him earn his Eagle Scout award as one of the youngest in North Carolina, I came to loving serving others. Drew was the person who got me interested in sports and taught me how to play basketball. Not only has he influenced my personality, but my goals as well. Drew was always older and smarter than I was and inspired me to pursue academic excellence. Though filling his large shoes (literally; he’s a really big guy) is difficult, I make sure to work as hard as I can.
I am blessed to have the parents I do. My mother is my best friend, hands down. She is the strongest and most caring woman I know. If I can grow to be half the person she is in life, it would be a great accomplishment. My father is the smartest person I know. He is knowledgeable on almost every subject I ask him about! My parents are responsible for instilling my values in me. They both hold themselves to a high moral standard and I am glad my brother and I were able to inherit that trait from them. They taught us to be compassionate, respectful people and to work hard in order to achieve our goals. My parents have made endless sacrifices in order for my brother and I to become good, educated people. I hope someday to be able to repay them for all they have done for me.