This is the way that I love to write…
Dear Anonymous,
I texted you on Saturday morning, asking if what you had said to me the night before was really real. Still waiting on that response. Staring at my phone from 7 to 9 has made me think about it more AND MORE AND MORE and I cannot keep sitting here like this. Do you understand that what you said hurt? Then you expect me to wait a whole night while you make your mind up? No. That’s why I’m writing you this letter.
You said what you said, but would you still be saying that if you remembered how much fun we had everyday after school? You used to take my hand and sit with me on the train all the way to my house, miles away from your own, because you told me you wanted to see me get home safe. Remember that? Remember when we were walking to my front door and I introduced you to my friends down the block? They said you were cute. And they wondered how someone like you could actually be real, nice enough to look after my safety before your own. You would walk alone from my door to the train and go back downtown before your father or grandmother called you, wondering where you were. Your program missing you. You were very much like Ferris Bueller that way. Those were the days I couldn’t help but think about all night.
When was the last time you thought about that? Or, when was the last time you thought about that picture you drew for me? The one that had all the clean line work, as if it took you a year to make. You handed that to me on a Wednesday, the same day I told you I would have a song written for you, about you, that I would sing to you. I’m sorry I didn’t sing it. I’m sorry I choked and couldn’t find enough courage in me to bring it. I’m sorry you were so excited and I completely ruined the feeling. At least I made it up when I sung it to you that evening. You know the day we couldn’t find a place to sit? Somebody was already on that bench in the garden you showed me last summer, so we walked around and sat outside in the courtyard of a church. You’re not religious, neither am I, but it felt like that’s where we were meant to be. With your head laying on me, I didn’t have to stare into your eyes and sing, you told me I could look away and smiled. That big smile you had lit up the concrete. Are you telling me to look away again, now?
I can’t now. You gave me food and fed my mind with stories of great men and women who taught you every single thing you know. The fact that you could remember them all by name was so sweet; as if you never wanted them to go. Don’t you remember that time you didn’t want me to leave, but my mother was calling me and said I had to go take care of somebody precious? You understood. You let me go. But why not keep me close now that nobody else needs me? Why choose this moment to tell me that you’ll think about it and tell me when the sun rises? Well, it rose hours ago and I’ve heard nothing from your end. Do you see that I’m scared? You are the kind of person who can intimidate a shark in blood filled waters. You set your life on the line to save a woman underground when a man tried to hurt her, and in that moment you became the protector I always knew you would be for us.
When was the last time you thought about the way my hands shake when I’m sad? When was the last time you held them in yours and laughed at me for being over dramatic, knowing full well that I would only laugh with you if you said that? Do you even remember the day I couldn’t stand to look myself in the mirror and made a bad situation worse by yelling at the people I cared about? It wasn’t because I wanted them to feel my pain, it was because they never could; I tried to scream it into them. But with you I didn’t have to scream. I never raised my voice at you, and you never did with me. So, why?
Why haven’t you gotten in touch? Why is the feeling that I’m feeling saying I’m not enough? Why is the present I bought you on a shelf catching dust? How come in order to reach you, I have to deal with this frustration and temptation to call you out on a bluff? And catch a train or a bus up to your house in a rush?
Knock the door down in one kick and run to your room and assume that the only reason you haven’t spoken is this: you died and left me sitting there, phone in a fist, waiting on a response while I’m fuming and pissed. I love being in your room but come on with all this. You should know that we respond to one another real quick.
But you’re acting like the sun hasn’t risen. Hurry up and answer me, you know my mind is a prison. I can’t wait to hear your answer and hope that “No” isn’t it. But this is killing me more than when we argue and spit. I’d rather go back to the old times, when we sat and talked. Wrote poems in the dirt and on walls when it’s dark. When we walked around the neighborhood caught up in the thought of one another, no better treasure than loving you brought.
So there it is, that’s my mind on a paper. Sorry it’s ten miles long and more hurried writing than actual fluent written script with meaning, class, and elegance but that’s the way my mental is when I can’t deal with mental images and you being a recluse while the reality of us ending is the only thing I’m witnessing. Look at me speaking gibberish. Just hit me up before the sun sets.
Love,
2014-2016