Holy Smokes! That was a busy month! It is hard to process all the emotions right now. Even though we talked about it on the last day in Malaysia, how do you answer the question, “how was Malaysia”, it is hard to even for me to answer that question even for myself.
I know that I had an unforgettable, once in a lifetime experience, that probably changed me consciously and subconsciously.
I learned during this trip that I can really push myself.
I can push myself through the heat.
I can push myself through language barriers to form connections.
I can push myself to eat new food — sometimes I would just put things in my mouth and hope for the best.
I can push myself to take advantage of every opportunity, even when we were given downtime.. because “When in Malaysia…”
Sometimes with our normal routines, we become complacent and comfortable. We think we’re living our best life. When in reality we’re constantly spending time with the exact same people that have the same views as us. We’re going to the exact same restaurants and hangout places. We’re reading the same type of books and watching the same type of tv.
Where is the growth with that lifestyle?
The Malaysian students we were with I think could be guilty of that as well. Their religion sometimes restricts what kind of food they can eat and their country sets the norm for who they can marry (Chinese marry Chinese, Indian marry Indian, Malay marry Malay) but they also have their own routines, their own likes, spending time with people like themselves. Even though we were in their country, we traveled to places that they know of, but don’t really know. I think the trip pushed them to try new things and reach outside of their comfort zone. They were local tourists.
However, 48 hours of traveling to a time zone that is 12 hours different is not something that can happen frequently for your average person.
How can we continue to push ourselves and not fall into the rut of complacency and comfortably?
- try new food in ethnic restaurants
- attend a religious service or event different from your own to better understand it
- volunteer to tutor students with English as a second language
- attend a cultural festival or show
- be a tourist in your own town – there could be new opportunities and ways of thinking right under your nose.
While I believe it is hard to measure how much this trip has impacted me right now, when the past two days I was just in travel survival mode, I do know that is has impacted me. I look forward to seeing those impacts crop up with the new people that I meet or the random ones I see on the street and the way that my subconscious brain reacts to those interactions.
I also look forward to experiencing Pennsylvania as an adult rather than only as an adolescence. I plan to be a tourist in my own town, my own state. It will be interesting to see what it has to teach me. Because again.. apparently I’m good at change.