The definition of observational learning is learning that occurs through observing the behavior of others. As a child I was a perfect example of observational learning looking back on it today. Whether it was being a classic boy and playing army in the back yard, or trying to be the center of attention at family gatherings, the television had a huge impact on how I act due to always wanting to grow up as the superhero, action star, or rugged actor in a movie or TV show. When it came to violent television shows and video games my family made sure that I knew the consequences and the repercussions to those actions. As a child you can never fully understand the concept of what happens in violent movies and dying. Having Arnold Schwarzenegger in The Terminator, beating up cops and shooting at whoever was in the way was so exciting to watch, but as a child trying to perceive that people aren’t going to come back after they die is too difficult and too complex of an idea to handle as a kid.
Having my parents monitor how I behave myself after these kinds of movies I believe is a very critical part to growing up. Parents have been alive for much longer and have so much more knowledge to share with their children on what is acceptable and inappropriate. The other thing that parents have is they have the control and you don’t want to anger them. Having a parent give you a glare and saying in a stern voice, “don’t do that,” is a perfect indication and signal that I took my actions too far and should stop immediately if I would like to stay out of trouble. Having the extra set of eyes watching moves made me more aware of how to take my ideas after watching a movie and how to handle them appropriately. As you get to an older age though, having your parents fully explain what can happen in real life is so important for encoding the images correctly. My parents shaped the way I perceive information and I believe for the better.