Of the modern perspectives of psychology, I find the humanistic approach to be the most relevant to everyday life. Humanistic psychology focuses on the spiritual aspect of one’s thoughts, dealing with self-actualization or the ability to live up to one’s full potential. It says that humans are innately “good” in nature, and disturbances, socially or mentally, are our way of straying from this natural tendency. In turn, our ethical and moral values are derived from our own perception of ourselves, or who we desire to be.
As freshman in college, we were placed in a new environment, completely different from that of which we were used to in our hometowns. No longer surrounded by our usual group of friends and family, we have the choice of who we want to become friends with, what we want to do with our time, and who we want to be as a person. They say college is a time to find yourself. I’ve found this statement holds many truths. Having so much time to reflect on yourself and what you want to do with your life, you seem to come to terms with who you want to be as an individual. You have the opportunity to join the clubs you are interested in, and participate in organizations that are of interest to you, helping you to find yourself creatively. Also being surrounded by strangers most of the time, you realize how much the smallest interactions can effect someone’s day. This consequently, at least in my opinion, motivates you to behave more kindly to the people around you. This corresponds to the part of the humanistic approach that says your behaviors are a direct result of your developed morals and ethics. From experience, I have found that the humanistic approach of modern day psychology applies to many aspects of everyday life.