One of the largest parts of many college students college experience involves greek life. Everyone has seen movies of frat houses and has heard the countless amounts of myths about pledging. While hazing is banned by every college, every national headquarters of all fraternities, and even with the police, it still happens. On every campus there is hazing. Of course the severity of the hazing differs from house to house and university to university, but nonetheless it is more than common. Hazing is the most common reason for fraternities to be kicked off campuses and get their charter revoked by nationals. Despite the harsh consequences hazing is still alive.
There is a very reasonable question to ask here: why do fraternities risk everything just to haze these kids? The answer is basically the same everywhere: it builds unity in a pledge class (who is basically the group that will be best friends for the rest of their life), as well as increasing respect, and building brotherhood. Once most people finally get into these fraternities, they then want to put the next kids through what they just went through. The basis of the fraternity is that you can be best friends with every member, and the thought is that by doing things like hazing it makes only the ones who really want to be there stay; and then essentially weeds out the ones who weren’t a perfect fit.
First off, I first became familiar with fraternities from my older brother. As I got older I started to inquire more, and he told me that everyone he knew who pledged and got hazed during it said the same thing; they are very happy they went through all of it and when it was finally over it was the best feeling and they all said that it was worth going through. All of the people that I have talked to here at school here have told me almost exactly that as well. So to me it seems that the majority of people who make it through tend to be stronger mentally, as one of the major parts of hazing is mental toughness.
Does this make it ok? Absolutely not. Hazing is just something that is a part of the culture and tradition of fraternities. Throughout all of time there have been groups who’s practices have become outlawed but that does not stop them from practicing them. Fraternities are the same way as they are essentially clubs with secret traditions that have been passed down for years. Having said that, everyone has heard of at least one tragic story due to hazing, whether due to forced drinking or even suicide because of the mental effects on the person, it has happened. To start “eighteen to twenty-five year olds have one of the highest rates of severe psychological distress out of any age group, and also have the lowest rate of seeking help (http://notthecorrecturl.orgsync.com/org/nohazing/hiddenharm).” The most common mental disorders in young people today are anxiety disorders and depression. Hazing increases the stress on a day to day basis and combining that with the age of the highest rates of psychological distress is a recipe for disaster.
This means that the age in which pledging occurs is the time in their life with the highest base of psychological distress. Adding the amount of stress that pledging can to this is already elevated amount can lead to someone exploding and harming themselves. Some fraternities have hazing events that are so bad to can cause the pledges to have severe breakdowns and it can even be as bad as having flashbacks, sort of PTSD on a lower scale.
In conclusion, it is widely accepted that hazing should be illegal, as it is, and the ramifications as heavy as they are. Clearly hazing can really mess with a person’s head as there have been countless stories that haven’t ended the way they should have. Finally, I also really don’t believe that hazing will end any time soon, but that hopefully anyone who is having problems finds the help they need and that the brothers can draw the line and not push these kids over the edge. As well as the police and nationals can enforce these rules and punish those accordingly.
Sources:
http://notthecorrecturl.orgsync.com/org/nohazing/hiddenharm
http://cornellsun.com/blog/2007/01/26/effects-of-hazing-last-long-after-pledging-process/