It’s a very common thing for a person to not consider dating someone simply because they aren’t their “type”. Some people prefer to date blondes, or short people, people of a certain race, and so on. But is there any science backing up the idea that these people are legitimately attracted to people with certain traits? When people look for a sexual partner they automatically try and find the healthiest mate. By this I mean we as humans a programmed to be attracted to general things such as clear skin, healthy bodies, a symmetrical features because they are all indicators that the person is healthy and able to create good offspring. But why is it that people develop such specific requirements when looking for a boyfriend or girlfriend? The reason may lie in homophily. For those of you who aren’t familiar with this term homophily means love of the same, more recently it has been associated with people who date people who remind them of themselves.
It makes a lot of sense that people would be interested in being with someone who share their interests seeing as they would intend on spending a lot of time with that person. But it extends past the extracurricular sense and into the physical one as well. A study done by MIT on online dating requirements, found that people put down race and appearances similar to theirs as being a very important factor in weather or not they would consider dating the person. It seems that peoples type develop from a desire to breed with someone who looks like they do, kind of egotistical but that’s just human nature. A study was done to explore just how similar people prefer their partner to be “David Parrett, a researcher at the University of St. Andrews in Scotland, showed students faces of the opposite sex and asked them to rate them on attractiveness. For one of the faces, he used a picture of the student and morphed it into the opposite sex. Of all the faces to choose from, the students almost always preferred the face that was essentially their own.” Isn’t it weird that we want to create people so similar to ourselves, especially considering the fact that genetic diversity tends to produce the healthiest off spring?
Another reasoning for people having a type that is similar to their own is the fact that they will face fewer obstacles in their relationship. People from similar socioeconomic backgrounds wont encounter as many differences in opinion regarding money and wealth. Also people with similar education levels can communicate very effectively with each other. So overall it seems weird but I suppose that because you can’t date yourself people try to find the closest possible thing and that is why some people have such specific types.
http://www.divinecaroline.com/love-sex/why-do-some-people-have-types-science-love
http://smg.media.mit.edu/papers/Fiore/fiore_donath_chi2005_short.pdf
http://www.nytimes.com/2006/12/10/magazine/10Section2a.t-4.html?_r=0