I think everyone has such experience, when we were a kid we fall in crazy love of an idol. We listen to their songs over and over again. We buy their albums and even the cloth which idols spoke to. Some crazy idolaters waiting their idol shows up in the airport, the supermarkets, even on the streets. What’s more, a real crazy story is that a girl was so crazy about the idols and she did not want to study even if she was only 13 years old. The father crazy about an idol and her father endured a along time. One day she said, “ I love my idols more than my parents.” Her father was very angry when he heard this. He lost all conscious and killed his daughter then commit suicide. My classmate in my high school. She is crazy about a super star who is a handsome man. When she went shopping with me, she must went into the shop where the star advertised. She would buy a lot of stuff even if some objects that she would not use them. Some girls like idols so much they carve idols’ names on themselves’ arms. I think they are really crazy. So why some kids so crazy about celebrities and how could we keep idolaters emotion under control?
The definition of Idolater is that the person that admires intensely and often blindly one that is not usually a subject of worship. According to could you fall in love blindly, as a society, we put a lot of emphasis on appearances. Looks play a large part of our lives, whether it’s how we look or how we perceive others. Stars’ attractive faces or dance are powerful enough for a naive teenager. Kids go through physical and psychological transformations during that time and it is also time they need to put their passion on something. A real person may refuse their love, however, a celebrity won’t. In this case, they would volunteer their money and time for them. In this way, stars get suppot they want and spread more information about themselves through their fans. Secondly, teenagers lack of family love easily in love with stars. A lot of stars have tough childhood, they get over it and became famous. Teenagers with family issue will find the common between themselves and stars. Through this way, teenagers love them more and think of them as their mentor.
So I wondering if there is any physchological reason exists on the phenomenon? Evolutionary psychologist Francisco Gil-White, from the University of Pennsylvania in Philadelphia explians, “Humans have a biological predisposition towards recognising prestigious individuals and acting sycophantically towards them. In the ancestral environment, prestigious individuals would be followed by people who wanted to gain information about successful living. Modern-day children who follow celebrities may be more popular because they are using this inbuilt mechanism to determine who and what is ‘cool’ “. So actually admire celebrities kind of not our choice. We were born this way. Social evluation teach us to learn from the successful people. Especially when we are young and havn’t form judgment on the surroundings we are more easily get effected by others.
I think admire celebrities is not a hazard thing. However, we always need to keep in our mind that there is a line there. Like why we really obsess over celebrities says, “They are regular people in very high-profile jobs.” I once love a singer crazily, but after a few years the passion all gone. During the time I like him I didn’t spend a lot money on it, I just download his songs and listening. Sometimes talk to my friends how much I like him. I always keep in mind it’s not worth it to spend too much time and money on it. We are the master of ourselves’s life so don’t pay attention too much on celebrities life. Besides I think the right lead from teachers and families are really important. During the transformations time tell them such behavior is understandable but do not put too much passion on celebrities.
Finally, the idolaters can hurt themselves. On March, 20 2014, a new would be spread q
Sources:
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/idolater
Could you fall in love blindly http://www.dearvagina.com/could-you-fall-in-love-blindly-literally/relationships/love-and-dating/
http://www.counselling-directory.org.uk/counsellor-articles/why-do-kids-actually-fall-in-love-with-celebrities